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my instincts and intuition made me delve deeper

Girls, steer clear of my cheating no good husband

I would go to a friends house, use her computer

shame on all who cheat so back off and find some one single

i found out on New year's Eve that he was cheating

am currently 6 months pregnant with his next child

at first when i got married it was all nice

I found out through a message left at his office

if we have the intent of cheating on the net it is cheating

he didn't care about me and my son so now he has to pay the price

if you want to know what is going on in your spouses life, get their pass codes

he was picking up women from online and sleeping with them

Surprise your mate at work one day

Surprise your mate at work one day

Watch cell phone charges, caller ID and booby trap things in the house, cause you never know cheating mate may have someone coming over when ur not home. Unexpected trips alone, a sudden desire to buy new clothes, spending lots of money. Be especially careful when they say "I just want to take this trip alone to find myself.....I need some time to myself...." you'd be surprised what lengths cheaters go to not to get caught. Yahoo mail, hotmail are to name a few where you can receive e-mail without another knowing. Surprise ur mate at work one day, I caught mine in a lunchtime quickie in my Tahoe a block away from his work.

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My boyfriend told me. he loved me i was the only one for him ect. turns out he was picking up women from online and sleeping with them he slept with eight different women our first year togeather and gave me a genital warts a std. i was totally destroyed. we broke up but now 4 years later we are seeing each other again. i belive people can change and deserve to forgiven case by case depending one the situation. i am writing this because i want people to know that you should trust your instint if something doesn't feel right event if you have no proof. the odds are you are right never violate a gut feeling or "hunch" and the only way to free yourself from the pain is to realize that what the cheater did has nothing to with you being not good enough it has to do with the other persons selfish and decitful ways. one more thing if you do decided to forgive and reconcile make sure you truley have let go of resentment for the other person carring that pain around is pointless if you are going to love someone don't be afraid to be vounarable. but always keep your eyes open follow your instint.

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if you want to know what is going on in your spouses life, get their pass codes

I met a man two and half years ago. He was still married and I was going through a divorce. He told me him and his wife are starting to go through a separation. I of course believed him. Since then he has cheated on me with her after she moved out which took her two years after we met. He cheated on me three times that I know about. She is aware we are together, and is very jealous of me. The reason for their divorce is that she was cheating on him for two years than he found out. He lies to me constantly about everything. He has told me over and over that he loves me and that he wants only to be with me, and that he has made mistakes. I have also caught him in a bar hugging on women, got his voicemail pass code and found out he has been out with women and they call him to make dates. Let me tell you people, if you want to know what is going on in your spouses life, get their pass codes. You learn a lot. Yes it is not healthy, but if you are not sure, check it out. You will find something if they're cheating. I also have his password to his email, and I have also found a lot of messages from him and his ex. Her asking him for sex toys, and other stuff. I confront him all the time, but he is too scared to ask how I know. I am not going to sit around and be cheated on anymore. I do feel trapped, because I work for him, and he does pay my rent, but I figure, he's screwed me so much he deserves what he is going to get. I no longer trust men. i don't think they exist. I have so much pain inside of me, all I do is cry, and yell. I have changed as a person, and I feel bad for my kids. If you are getting cheated on, get out now. Don't stick around waiting for them to change, they won't. Therapy didn't work for us. He went with me and cheated right after. I am very self loathing, and it's no way to feel. I am bitter, and I hope to God I get better.

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I met a younger man....we have been together for over a year.I went to Europe for school and while i was gone..he had his X-girl stay in the apartment where we live...Someone is always calling and hanging up and some of my stuff has been missing..HE asked me to marry him..and then ask if i would marry his brother to bring him here from another country..NO WAY!! We would have the same last name..I am out of here...low life!!

my instincts and intuition made me delve deeper...

I have just ended a 4 month relationship... found out he was seeing 2 other women that I know about. Always wondering why his phone was on silent, or he had to cancel dates. I asked him about his behaviour, but he always had a story or would talk me round. But after several weeks my instincts and intuition made me delve deeper. I checked his message phone, and sure enough.. 2 different women had left messages of a personal nature. So I followed him the next night and he was at this womans house. I called him out and yes found out he was cheating on me. Also called the other woman, who's number I took from his phone.. she had been dating him a year. This guy was busted by me, and I dumped him bigtime, but I know he will go out and lie and cheat again. I'm so angry at his disregard for my feelings, even when I had asked him point blank what was going on.. I would have rather him dumped me! But I live and learn and know I will always trust my instincts... if he is inaccessable, secretive with his phone... thats the biggest clue. he's the loser, not me.. at least I got out early

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Girls, steer clear of my cheating no good husband...

Girls, steer clear of my cheating no good husband he will take everthing from you and suck the life from your precious soul.

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I would go to a friends house, use her computer...

Ive been married to my husband for 4 years, we were together for 2 before that. We have three kids,(all from previous relationships) and I thought we were in love. Things have been a little rough on us lately financially and my health is not the greatest, but I could always count on him to be faithful to me and love me unconditionally. Well, was I ever shocked when I decided to go into my temporary internet files and saw that he had been going into sex chat rooms on the server we use to play games and chat with friends through a messenger. So, I decided after about 3 months of this(and not letting him know that i know about it) that I would go to a friends house, use her computer, make a new sign in name and profile and see what he was up to. Well I found him in a sex chat room, and I started talking to him, took a deep breath, and finished the job( if you know what i mean) for him. Gave him what he wanted! But I also set up for the woman i was pretending to be to meet with him this weekend, and he agreed. I was devastated. I havent said anything to him yet, and I wont. I am going to see if he makes an excuse to go, and if he does, I dont know what i am going to do. But it wont be pretty! I will have to let you know what happens, after the weekend, so until then, DONT TRUST ANYONE! ;)

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shame on all who cheat so back off and find some one single...

well i got something to say about cheating i think you all stink and are very devil like people to destory people like this. ya it happened to me the day i buried my mom my husband of 28yrs had a computer affair. with some one in texas and i love him very much and he did this to me with some one that has a history of affairs she was married to her and her husband have been togther for24yrs well the two of them are togther now and neather one of them want to work so they set on street corners selling dvd movies and t-shirts oh after he left he told me i was a good wife and i did nothing but please him and we did not fight and he was sorry and he wish he would not of done this this all hurts so bad now i get to lose my home and my husband i loved and thought he loved me but she changed that they have lied to each other and they have lost a lot of things he lived in elkhart and her texas they have made about 11 trips to elkhart because she wont live here besides her husband has found out she has been with a lot of men here sence there divorce. i think affairs are bad and they should not be done find some one who is not with someone dont hurt people with the unforgiveable sin. in the long run you well lose and if you walk out on your family then i think the law should make the one who walks out lose all it was there choice to hurt some one and some day i hope they hate each other for this she is a low life scum and he is hurt and wishes he would of never done this now shame on all who cheat so back off and find some one single thats the right thing to do.

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i found out on New year's Eve that he was cheating...

My fiance was cheating on me and we were supposed to go and live with my mother when i turned 18 and then i found out on New year's Eve that he was cheating on me because the girl that he was supposedly cheating on me with called my house and told me that he was cheating on me and that he didn't want nothing to do with me so i don't know what to do.

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am currently 6 months pregnant with his next child...

I'd like to tell my story. I've been seeing this man for 8 years now. We have never lived together but we've been together. I have a 4 year old daughter and am currently 6 months pregnant with his next child. I found out a while ago he was seeing another woman and taking care of her child. I
really mad, angry, hurt and depressed.

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at first when i got married it was all nice...

well at first when i got married it was all nice. we spent alot of time together and then things have been changing he was at the bar all the time then he would miss the time he would be home and i would never he from him then we fell apart he was working and i was working and i found out that he was with another woman and i am now getting a divorce.

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I found out through a message left at his office...

I just found out that my husband of two and a half years cheated on me while we were engaged. He has also cheated while we were married at least two times that I know of. One I found out through a message left at his office and another I found an email.

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if we have the intent of cheating on the net it is cheating...

Jesus said that he who lusts has committed adultry in his heart. I believe if we have the intent of cheating on the net it is cheating. If we create a "set up" in any life situation that leads to cheating or will likely lead to cheating, you are committing adultry in your heart. When you do something in your heart, it is in your imagination as well. Anything done in the imagination creates and manifests behaviors and mental & physical conditions. So why play with fire if you don't want a fire? One of the greatest points that I have been trying to make is to clean up our imaginations. Behavior control is not enough to cease hurting yourself; it only stops you from hurting others. When we cleanse our imaginations, life begins to manifest wonders.

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he didn't care about me and my son so now he has to pay the price...

Hi, I have a husband that ive been married to for a year and six months, everithing was going good in our relationship (or so I thought), we have a 1 year old baby. But just today I found out that he's been cheating on me this whole time, and to make matters worse it's with a co-worker that I know cause we happen to work in the same company. I dont know what to do at this moment, i confronted him about it and he didn't even deny anithing. I'm really confused and upset right now, cause I would have never thought this of him, he would alway's say that he would not be capable of doing such a thing, I guess I was just naive and I didn't think he could do such a thing. All I know right now is that once Im off work Im going home and packing and taking my son with me, I have no clue where Im going, but this is the toughest thing that I have ever had to deal with, and honestly I dont think I could ever forgive him, he didn't care about me and my son so now he has to pay the price, and I just wish him the best, hope all the damage he caused was worth it.

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