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Signs of a
Cheating Spouse
Being aware of the
warning signs of infidelity can alert you to an affair in its early
stages, giving you the best chance for recovery. Here are some of the
signs to look for in a spouse cheating online or in real life.
Online Affairs:
Look for an increase in the time they spend privately on the internet.
They are reluctant to let you have access to their computer. Erasing
their Internet History and constantly clearing their sent and deleted
email is another sign that they have something to hide.
Real Life Affairs:
Cheaters will spend more. Check your bank account and credit cards for
unexplained purchases. They will have time unaccounted for when you
cannot reach them. For example, working overtime or their cell phone
"stops working".
If you find you have a
cheater, it
is important that you find out why
they would risk ending your relationship by cheating on you. Otherwise,
it may happen again, and next time they will be more secretive about
it. more
A scientist claims that some people may be
genetically programmed to be unfaithful to their partner. A BBC News
World Edition article.
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Infidelity Linked to Cancer?
A study by the National
Cancer Institute found that women are up to 11 times more likely to
develop cervical cancer if their men have many other sex partners
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How to Prevent Affairs
Peggy Vaughn -
DearPeggy.com
What will NOT work: promising to be faithful, threats or
ultimatums, religious commandments, having more children, repeating
the marriage vows, spicing up your sex life, trying to be "perfect,"
and trying to meet all your partner's needs.
Read more about The Monogamy Myth
How Do I Know if My Boyfriend is Cheating?
Advice for teens at TeenWire.com.
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New Cell Phones May Help Cheaters
Watch out for cell phones that are offering features that can help a cheater hide his tracks. Video phones are now available that allow users to select the background of their choice before answering a call. A cheating spouse in a motel can answer the call with the image of the office behind them. Another company offers downloadable software that can add background noises behind your cell phone conversation, to make you think your cheater is at the office, dentist, on the street or even operating heavy machinery.
Getting Over it
Individuals heal
emotionally in different ways and on different schedules.
It took me about two years after my
wife left before I can say that I "got over it". It wasn't that I was
thinking about her as much as I was dwelling on the pain and the fear
of it happening again. I don't know if this is considered a long time
to heal from a 24 year marriage coming to an abrupt end, I just know
that's how long it took for me.
Don't let others tell you when it is
time for you to "get over it". They may have their own agenda or they
may simply recover faster from emotional setbacks than you. Heal at
your own pace.
I am not suggesting that you wallow in
misery without trying to get back in the swing of things. I tried that,
it doesn't work. It is important to move on and to get yourself
together. You will not recover without trying. Give yourself some time
and then make an effort to get back in the game (of life).
Take it from someone that loved
completely and lost it all. Life can be good again. - webmaster
The High Cost of Internet
Pornography
By Linda S. Mintle, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist
Christianity.com
With internet pornography, many are logging on to
sexual addiction - and paying a big price.
Internet pornography is big business with over 1 million pornographic
web sites playing to 75 million adults and 25 million children online.
Easy access brings the problem to the homes and offices of many men.
Pornography offers excitement and immediate gratification but has
long-term negative effects.
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Is Chatting Cheating?
EagleTribune.com
Julie Kirkwood
In this article, the mayor of a city in
Massachusetts finds out first hand, the trouble a little online
flirting can cause. She insists the relationship never led to adultery
and it ended three months ago. When her husband saw copies of the
e-mails, he got so upset he went to the house of the "other man" and
was arrested on assault charges. Read
more
SurvivingInfidelity.com
A must see site for anyone that has had a
relationship affected by betrayal. A compassionate couple that has
recovered from their own struggles with infidelity, provide a safe
place for healing and rebuilding your self-esteem, relationship and
self worth. Caring volunteers moderate over forums and contribute
to the "Healing Library", which contains books, links and well thought
out articles from the heart.
Visit this site
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Avoiding the
“Greener Grass” Syndrome
How to Grow
Affair-Proof Hedges Around Your Marriage
Nancy C. Anderson
This book is a compelling
chronicle of Nancy’s journey to the other
side of the marital fence and her return as a prodigal wife seeking
forgiveness and restoration. Find out more
The Cycles
of Sexual Addiction
Crescentlife.com
This informative web site has articles on the
signs of sex addiction, patterns and examples of sexual addiction. read
more of this article
Controlling
Anger -- Before It Controls You
American Psychological Association
This article focuses
on dealing with anger. It contains smart approaches to handle your
feelings when you get angry for any reason, not just infidelity.
It discusses how to direct your anger outward in positive ways and
the dangers of bottling your anger inside.
Is it a good idea
to "let it all hang out"? Their answer may surprise you...
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The Cycles
of Sexual Addiction
Crescentlife.com
This informative web site has articles on the
signs of sex addiction, patterns and examples of sexual addiction. read
more of this article
Eat Your Carrots
A well done weblog site from the UK discusses the subject of infidelity.
Visit this site
Wife Cheating on Military Man Asks For Advice.
Dr. Judith and two licensed clinical social workers answer a question from a cheating wife.
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Life After Divorce
An excellent article by Lynette J. Hoy, a marriage and family counselor, that addresses many common questions sent in to ChatCheaters.
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Infidelity Poem
A poem called "Online Affair" about a husbands infidelity. Read Online Affair
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