ex living w/ woman and kids and still trying to get me back

[Linda'sblessed]

What I am wondering is, why would you consider speaking to this woman or showing her the text messages you've received from him? Do you think this would really make a difference, considering her character?
I have 4 cell phones containing all of the text messages my H has sent me over the course of 2 years that I am saving for evidence at trial. I would have loved to switch to a less expensive phone plan last year, but the sim card doesn't hold all of the text messages. The actual phone holds many, so I am sucking up the expense until I can finally be free of this man and all of his loving text messages telling me how badly he screwed up, and how much he wants me and needs me back in his life as his wife.
Hello?
The bottom line is....the last thing my husband was thinking about when he cheated on me was me and the children. He didn't give any of us a second thought at the time (multiple times). Now that he's tired of cheating with the cheaters who obliged him and his sexual needs, he wants us all back like nothing ever happened?????
No way. What's done is done, and he did it just like your H did.
I agree with Beachgirl.....he made his bed, let him lie in it.

You take care of your kids in the best way you can despite what he has done to you, and to them. Teach your kids that they can always call you whenever they don't feel comfortable, even if it's when they're staying with dad. Kids are smart, and we don't always give them as much credit as we should when we think they are too young to make good decisions. If your children ever call you from dad's house because they are uncomfy with what's going on, call the police for a welfare check and let the police know that you will meet them there to get your children if necessary.

I am sorry you are going through this after all that you have been going through for too long. Better days ahead!

Linda'sBlessed

[jennsuzanne123]

thanks linda...i have decided not to say anything but to keep all texts for trial if it comes to that and also will show her only if he tries to have visitation there...as long as he doesn't get her involved w/ my children i will not share them w/ her. but the second he brings them around her again, i will...as i don't trust her character...anyone who has a man move in w/in a month when she has kids and never met him before that is someone i don't want around my kids.

[Jasmine]

Your STBX is a cake eater, run, because he is a cheater and they will take anything and everything out of you... and thensome!