Want to know a really worthless cheater?

[MuffinMan]

Get an account at survivinginfedility.com.

The forums there are protected. There is a forum called the Wayward Side where cheaters go to justify their cheating. And if you are one of the cheated on, your opinion is not really valued because you speak too much truth for them.

Anyway, there was a woman who was wanting forgiveness, but she could not keep from cheating. So I gave her the harsh truth and it was based on the fact that she is not remorseful for what she is doing because she is STILL cheating.

Well, one of the moderators, who goes by the handle of Deeply Scared, blocked my comments, and after a heated discussion over private messages with this Deeply Scared I decided to look at her profile.

And sure enough, she was another cheater who simply doesn't want to hear the truth. She gave this long drawn out story about how she cheated, and it came as no surprise...she tried to justify why she cheated. I almost think it was Chrissy or Chelsea.

Anyway. To prove my point that "once a cheater, always a cheater" and that the cheaters, for the most part, really do not have any remorse for what they have done....she knew I had been betrayed and decides to end the conversation with "Bitter?" and a few laughing faces.

So if you go to that site, keep in mind ...the people in the forum Wayward Spouses do not care about your pain, all they care about is getting off easy for their own cheating. As a matter of fact, you are a joke to them.

So for a good laugh, go to that site, register...visit the Wayward Side forum and you will see what I mean. And don't be surprised if you say the truth and they don't want to hear it, if Deeply Scared comes in and saves the day.

They don't care about what they have done to their spouses, all they care about is not receiving any grief for what they have done...like Deeply Scared. ..one truly worthless woman...I feel sooooo sorry for her husband...afterall, she blamed her affair on him because things died down. Typical

[exhausted]

How can you justify something that is COMPLETLEY WRONG?

The sad thing is their are propl out there that think that cheating is OK..

[mrmaximum]

Muffin, that has to be the most disgusting thing that I have ever heard. These people cause irreparable harm to the people that they claim they love, and then claim that THEY are the victims!! I’ve rarely heard of something so repulsive in my life. I remember reading something stupid like this in one of my sister's old magazines when we were both teenagers. You know those quizzes where on the one side he's treating you like crap, so you should dump him or you guys are normal, be happy, and then finally, on the other end, your treating you boyfriend badly. Well in this particular one, and I swear I'm not making this up, if you got a very low score, that meant that you where treating you boyfriend like crap....because he's treating you like crap!!! NO RESPONSIBLITY FOR THE WOMEN WHATSOEVER!! She's the victim on BOTH sides!! No wonder more and more people are saying that western women are going to the dogs!! Good grief!!:confused:

[Skirtchaser]

Where else are they going to get justification? Sure as hell won't get it here. Think I will just hang around here, no use in me going there, I am not outspoken enough to go there. :)

[MuffinMan]

Where else are they going to get justification? Sure as hell won't get it here. Think I will just hang around here, no use in me going there, I am not outspoken enough to go there. :)

Thats what I love about this site. Cheating justification doesn't fly here.
But it sure does at survivinginfidelity.

If you go there, you have to give Deeply Scared some hell...she is truly worthless, and whats worse, she had no remorse for my situation or any other betrayed victim's situation...she was all about helping cheaters see that they are not completely wrong that the betrayed shares the responsibility for the affair.

Never heard such a load in my life.

[Skirtchaser]

sounds like the queen of the harlots. :p

[markus]

Deeply Scared

Makes you wonder why a cheat would use that name ?

Is she feeling sorry for herself ?


I dont think people that affairs have it in them to understand that cheating is their fault and i dont think any of them are truly remorsefull
they enjoyed their affairs , got caught and then the betrayed spouse has to tell them how to help because they have no idea
My wife had an affair for over two years and she says ' cant you forget about it now'

er yeah i didn't think of trying that one


Btw

I got suspended from that website months ago, like you i couldn't beleive what i was reading
They were having a conversation about how they were missing the other man since they broke off the affair
I told them if they wasn't selfish cheating wh)ores they wouldn't have that problem

[Skirtchaser]

just another one with the time old malady. C.ockitis. No cure. :p

[Skirtchaser]

they would'nt let me log in. Da.mn Markus , you got us all banned from that site. Maybe the moderator is Chelsea in disguise. :)

[MuffinMan]

Btw

I got suspended from that website months ago, like you i couldn't beleive what i was reading
They were having a conversation about how they were missing the other man since they broke off the affair
I told them if they wasn't selfish cheating wh)ores they wouldn't have that problem

I know, they are worthless pieces of sh!t...Deeply Scared is the worst of them all.
Her husband almost divorced her over it...i wished he had. She deserves to be alone.

[MuffinMan]

they would'nt let me log in. Da.mn Markus , you got us all banned from that site. Maybe the moderator is Chelsea in disguise. :)

ya, they didn't let me register again saying my IP address was banned.

I'll just change to a static IP and register. They think they have this IT man fooled....they aren't that smart.

[elainegayla]

Oh yeah, I've been to that site. I went to the section for the cheaters to see if there was a way they truly could be sorry. I wanted to find one cheater on there that truly loved his/her spouse while they were cheating (because I wanted to see if I was wrong in not believing that BS story from my husband).

Well, you know what I found if you have been there.

They are a disgusting lot and I find myself wanting to post my husband name and ask if anyone in there had been with my husband. But I don't. There are always LOTS of STRONG warnings for betrayed spouses to stay away and how its a place for cheaters to heal etc. etc.

I would say we do that on this site. Place warnings about how we are too delicate and hurt and confused to hear from the cheaters etc. But obviously we are stronger then them and don't need to be protected. Plus, its too much damn fun running them off.

As for shrinks, I noticed that they don't EVER talk badly about the cheater when he is in the room. They soften it up so that the cheater won't feel completely worthless and give up trying to better themselves. But when you have individual sessions, they are much more truthful about the fact cheaters are just bad/selfish people. I don't think they really feel anything but disgust for the cheater, but since its their job to try to keep marriage together, they have to cuddle the cheaters. Otherwise, the weak and useless cheaters would realize how weak and useless they are and kill themselves or lock themselves away from society.

We have been to four therapists and everyone of them tries to get me to leave my husband when we have individual sessions. But when my husband goes by himself, my husband always says stuff like "he really thinks we have a chance. He understand how I made this "mistake". I'm encouraged for our future". Thats why I stopped going. They talk out of both sides of their mouths. Thats FOUR therapists by the way. Not one exceptionally stupid or bad one.

[Skirtchaser]

Hey Elaine, What the sh.it do they mean YOU made a mistake. It was him that cheated. Leave the fa.gs to their f, ed up sh.it.
You were the one at home taking care of the kids, what was he doing.
Jeeeeze these therapist never cease to amaze me.
I don't consider them any different than a prostitute. And they don't have the sense that most prostitute's have. Tell them all to kiss your a.ss Elaine.:mad:

[Cosmic_Jihad]

Muffin!

Been there to,and encounterd the self proclamed HITLER

Deeply scared. Its amasing how the women cheaters keep patting them self on the back all the time.A to got baned from there ,when a told some truth´s to them....

Also amasing when you actully try to help then ,deeply scared keeps

deliting post ,as inapropriate unless you give some asskissing advice

[Lady_rose58]

I want to read and see what the cheaters have to say. I want to know why my husband thinks I am boring! For my piece of mind! :confused: Everyone else in my life doesn't think I am boring, friends, family, kids co workers. All them told me I was funny and they enjoy being around me.

[MuffinMan]

Muffin!

Been there to,and encounterd the self proclamed HITLER

Deeply scared. Its amasing how the women cheaters keep patting them self on the back all the time.A to got baned from there ,when a told some truth´s to them....

Also amasing when you actully try to help then ,deeply scared keeps

deliting post ,as inapropriate unless you give some asskissing advice

Yup...they don't want to hear the truth. And the thing was, I didn't post anything wrong, one of the cheaters ragged on me...insulted me for staying with the kids basically calling me stupid...but Deeply Scared didn't do anything about that.

So when i fired back, and it was tasteful, she defended this cheater by deleting my post.

Then in her IM to me...her true cheating ways were obvious. She wasn't the least bit remorseful of cheating...she thought it was funny that I was bitter for being cheated on.

So what does that tell ya?

[crissy]

Muffin,

I don't really know what happened in the one particular post because it was all deleted, but you posted over 14 times in less than 2 days. Honestly I thought you posted on things you felt comfortable giving advice about. You had some nice responses from others agreeing with you. What is the big deal? Did you just bash heads with the moderator? Other than that I thougt you gave some sound advice in a majority of your posts.

[markus]

Crissy that website is run by a load of cheating power freaks
I wouldn't piss on it if it was on fire

[Cosmic_Jihad]

i no what you mean.I twi dident post anything but the truth.But like a said
HITLER censured me a couple of times befor baning me..

Its funny you read back logged post,and the are still months laiter still
on square one..And the seriusley still don get it...WEIRD

[mrsmaximum]

You know I used to think that all men were the same (you know the what I mean) I've been cheated on eight times by my EX, and those are the one's I know about. Finally I realized that me and my kids deserve better, not really believing it's possible but figured I'd rather be alone and a good relationship/woman/mother role model for both my son/daughter. Then I met him. I couldn't believe this guy was for real. He was an absolute gem. He single handedly restored my faith in men. And perhaps you fellows will have a great woman come along one day just for you. There are a few good women in this world you know, same as with you guys! Cheers to you all.
However, I do agree with you guy's when it comes to the femist garbage. Because of those women, all the mom's are hard at work and have little time to raise our kids right, to know what's going on with them etc... relationships are difficult because some women want to be the man. That's such bull. I want to be a woman. The soft comforting one, not the harda**. But no they think we all can do it all. (Well we can) but who wants to? Well, maybe not it all, I mean we can't be dad's. If Ihad my dad around as a child I would have known what a real man was supposed to be and skipped over the duds. You know what I mean?

[MuffinMan]

They are a disgusting lot and I find myself wanting to post my husband name and ask if anyone in there had been with my husband. But I don't. There are always LOTS of STRONG warnings for betrayed spouses to stay away and how its a place for cheaters to heal etc. etc.

LOL...ya..that makes sense...a place for CHEATERS to heal. They don't need to heal, they need to constantly be reminded of what they are to keep them in check. As far as I'm concerned, cheaters don't deserve a comfortable life.
Their victims have to live with the pain they caused...even if their victim has moved on and it seems as the thought the pain is gone, the scars are still there.
So F#CK cheaters....and F#CK survivinginfidelity.com and Deeply Scared. She should be deeply scared...she is a worthless pig and her husband should have put her on the street where she belongs.

I would say we do that on this site. Place warnings about how we are too delicate and hurt and confused to hear from the cheaters etc. But obviously we are stronger then them and don't need to be protected. Plus, its too much damn fun running them off.

exactly...if cheaters want validation or to feel better about their cheating, they can go to the other site.

Their sh!t don't fly here.

We have been to four therapists and everyone of them tries to get me to leave my husband when we have individual sessions. But when my husband goes by himself, my husband always says stuff like "he really thinks we have a chance. He understand how I made this "mistake".

The therapist "understands" how your husband could f#ck another woman??
So basically he is saying that its your fault.

Counselors are the biggest quacks on the planet.

[MuffinMan]

Hey Elaine, What the sh.it do they mean YOU made a mistake. It was him that cheated.

She spoke in quotes...it was the husband saying "I".