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Skirtchaser
11-05-2006, 06:00 AM
There should be a new forum added here , titled.............
I am here to justify myself for cheating on my husband.

The moderators should do this so these cheating women can relieve their guilt between each other, if they feel any guilt, and how they should stand up for themselves and not be degraded for the affairs they committed. They can sit together and compare their pitiful reasons and justify themselves to each other instead of giving advice to some poor sap or gal coming on here hurting, devastated, and demoralized looking for answers to their hurt.
You say some of the men on here are bitter. D.amn right they are. Some were enough of a man to keep providing for their family's , my hat's off to them. Living with the pain and still taking care of their cheater makes them bitter.
I am not bitter for the reasons you post on here. I work in a job where I see and deal with the results of what the cheaters create. I see and have seen for years the outcome of these relationships and base my advice on what I have seen and dealt with.
I was cheated on in my first marriage. None of your pitiful excuses applied.
I moved past it and moved on. Never looked back. So I have lived what I advise.
I am here to try to help some of the new posters. Why are you Cheaters here??? Instead of hacking on these guys, try reading a few of their posts instead of looking at one thread and start posting your bulls.hit on here. You would see they are just as hard on the men who cheat as well. They meant it when they said "I Do". Where:mad: was you cheaters when you said it?

MuffinMan
11-05-2006, 09:52 AM
wow...I posted yesterday a "Notice to all cheaters"...but my suggestion was that these very people you mention quit complaining when they get bashed because they deserve to get bashed.

And kudos to the kudos you gave to us men who are sticking with it for their families. Its funny when people come in here and try to justify WHY my wife cheated instead of seeing the personal sacrifice I am making every day to make sure I am there for my kids. I guess thats what being a man is about...not cutting and running. Sure my feelings for my wife have now diminished....and the old feelings will never return.

By the way..she was invited to a bachelor party from a friend of hers that knows our situation...and invites her anyway...I couldn't believe it.
She asked if she could go....I simply said, "do you think thats a good idea"...she said, "don't you trust me?"....and I said "NO!"
I told her, "i didn't say you couldn't go...your a grown woman, but if you have any remorse for what you did, you will not go"

Skirtchaser
11-05-2006, 10:24 AM
cool post, muffinman, just read it. I agree with you. Got some private messages from some of the cheaters. They don't appreciate my point of view. Prompted my post. :cool:

MuffinMan
11-05-2006, 01:29 PM
cool post, muffinman, just read it. I agree with you. Got some private messages from some of the cheaters. They don't appreciate my point of view. Prompted my post. :cool:

They don't appreciate it after the devestation and pain they caused? Too f#cking bad. Their guilt will NOT be appeased here.