Wife told me it was over, discovered she has been cheating on me!

[Bdart]

To all members,

I found out on Aug 10th, 2006 that my wife of 7.5 years told me she was leaving. She told me we were just two different people. We have two children together, 6 and 4. I didn't expect that she was cheating on me until I got our cell phone bill in the mail for $696.00!! I then got on line and got an itemized list of her calls, both made and received. In one months time she and the other person made 477 calls to each other for almost 5000 minutes. They had also texted each other 30 times. She also sent this guy 12 picture messages, one at 2:31AM. I asked her what in the world kind of picture she would be sending at that time of the morning and she said it was probably a wedding cake!! Yeah I beleive that! Anyway, we had gone to the zoo in July and she lost her cell phone there. She asked if she could use mine so I let her. Out of curiosity, I went back and looked at the calls made from my own cell phone, and they had made 99 calls and 1007 minutes. They also texted each other and she also sent more picture messages.

[MuffinMan]

Shes a b!tch and she IS cheating.
Let her divorce you, I know you are hurting....but get FULL custody of your kids and let her go.
I'll never understand men/women who are involved with someone who is cheating on their spouse. What?...they think they won't cheat on them either.

Once your b!tch wife gets the 7 year itch with this man, she'll be sending pictures of herself to another man....she is a wh0re...let her go...but get your kids!!!

[prex]

Her cherating is between you and her. Unless she's somehow involving the kids, its a separate issue. Evil people usually make ok parents. Thats life. If it wasn't true, most people wouldn't have custody of their kids. Evil is as common as dirt, virtue is rare, and therefore, valuable.

Tell her you will not let her destroy your spirit, to move out, and don't talk to her. Ever, about anything but the kids. She will realize whats she's lost, the affair will fizzle like they all do, and she'll come begging back, usually two months. Then either tell her to fvck off, or lay down your terms, non-negotiable. Its essentially what I did, with some major complications, we'll see if it works.

[Skirtchaser]

Ditch her cheating ass and never look back. :cool:

[Bdart]

She filed for divorce stating irreconcilable differences. I filed back stating adultery. She also has put my children in the middle of it. Example taking them over to his house and staying there late. Going out to eat with him and my kids, going tho the movies with him and my kids. She even had me arrested, and put a restraining order on me saying that I was on psychotic drugs and that I owned a handgun and that she feared for her and the kids saftey. That I could lose it at anytime!

[tomasingm]

in the commandments. Then expose her to the world, her family, her friends, even the kids. She didnt just cheat on you, she cheated on her family. YOu have to remember this, most Church -going cheaters arent real, to them it is all about what people say and think. It is being a good spiritual person on the outside. YOu need to expose her church communities are very judgemental, and these type of people exploit that in their hypocricy (i spelled that wrong I know) expose her to the church, to the community, to the firends, to the family, and kids. Make sure you hav proof to justify the accusations or else it is here say and take that to teh preacher, reverand, priest, wahtver etc. etc. Shame her...

[MuffinMan]

She filed for divorce stating irreconcilable differences. I filed back stating adultery. She also has put my children in the middle of it. Example taking them over to his house and staying there late. Going out to eat with him and my kids, going tho the movies with him and my kids. She even had me arrested, and put a restraining order on me saying that I was on psychotic drugs and that I owned a handgun and that she feared for her and the kids saftey. That I could lose it at anytime!

You need to tell your lawyer all of this. I think it is such bullsh!t when all a woman has to do is lie about your mental state, and can get a restraining order without any proof...total bullsh!t

[MuffinMan]

Her cherating is between you and her. Unless she's somehow involving the kids, its a separate issue. Evil people usually make ok parents.

What are you on drugs or something?