For men who have been cheated on

[MuffinMan]

This article may be over the top, but I sure enjoyed reading it!!

To those men who have had cheating wives/girlfriends...enjoy this article.
And for the women reading this...it works for you too, just reverse the roles...and don't complain...this IS the cheating wives section.

http://www.badsamaritan.com/archives/2001/04/bad_advice_this_cheating_heart.php

I also just realized, I posted to this site back in 2004 under the name Raines...wow..its still there! Kewl!

[markus]

its probably the best way to completly destroy the relationship

[MuffinMan]

its probably the best way to completly destroy the relationship

The way I look at it, when one person in a relationship cheats...its pretty much destroyed anyway.

For those of us who decided to stay that are married for our children...we are sacrificing our personal happiness for our kids.

With the exception of violence...I love what he said in that article. The cheater forfiets all rights to be angry at most anything you would do in the relationship after that point on. Although I would never cheat to get revenge...I like the other stuff.

My wife's 30th birthday is coming up and she wanted a big party, catered, and get this....at a local club, with all of her friends there..I told her fat chance.

[confused]

Great article.....in fact i bookmarked the site for later....will meander around and see what he's all about.

I liked his take tho. You DO lose the right for whatever! NO MORE gifts, dinners, purchasing anything. I like that!

I liked how matter of fact he was in saying....

"When you do take her back, because you will"....and then..."when she does cheat on you again....because she will"....

i like the "gathering evidence" to use against her. Naked pictures, emails, voice messages. I never THOUGHT of any of that stuff!

Thanks for sharing M.M.!

[mrmaximum]

Damn!!! That couldn't have been put ANY better!!!:D

[markus]

For those of us who decided to stay that are married for our children...we are sacrificing our personal happiness for our kids.

Imo
We sacrfice for the children but they dont have to ... they have the option at anytime to remove us from that picture
If your going to stay then why not have a go at making the relationship better than it was before the problems started ? theres lessons for everyone to learn from with infidelity
Kids can sense everything , they will only be happy if your relationship is functioning healthy
If were not willing to make that effort then were better off picking them up a couple of times a week