Cheryl
03-27-2006, 05:50 PM
:o Hi, everyone.
I'm new to this group so just bare with me. My name is Cheryl & I'm a mother of 6 wonderful children. I've been married for almost 8yrs as of Aug. & have known my husband for alnost 10yrs. As of 1999 or better yet, since then, my husband has been caught numerous times cheating. It's like , every year it's a tradition for him. But anyhoo, the reason why I'm not with him is becauseI thought I could trust him. Until the year of 2004, on "Sweetest day", I was in the hospital with my son during his recovery from a surgery. Well, the next day or so, it clicked into my head that he's out of area to the point he can't make or receive calls . So, I've called his cell ph. & good thing that I've remembered his password but my heart jumped out as soon as I heard some female's voice asking if they were still on for that night. She didn't leave a name till about a couple of hours & she had left him another message & left her name. I was devistated . Well, I thought I could bite my tongue to see how long he thought he could get away with it but unfortunately, when he came walking in, I asked him where he was going tonight. He said nowhere, "why?" Then I had asked him who "Sue" was. Of course, he lied & really got snippy. So, I told him fine, & that if his phone rings, I want to answer it. Well, that night, she had called. Of course I got to answer it. I answered it & brought his cell ph. down to the comp room which is in basement & asked her questions. I told her that I was his sister until I caught her in a lie. But anyhoo, after I hung up, I wrote her phone number down & gave him his phone back. Thats when things were pretty scarry. He got violent & I mean real violent. Then we moved/bought our own house. Situations now haven't really changed besides his his bark is worse than his bite, for now. Unfortunately, I'm still with him. I'm also looking for a job & still notta. For some odd reason, he's gonna actually let me out to get job(probably thinking he's gonna get my check like he's done in the past). But anyhoo, there's a whole lot to this horrifying ordeal that I've been through & still have to be careful not to get caught "telling".
I'm new to this group so just bare with me. My name is Cheryl & I'm a mother of 6 wonderful children. I've been married for almost 8yrs as of Aug. & have known my husband for alnost 10yrs. As of 1999 or better yet, since then, my husband has been caught numerous times cheating. It's like , every year it's a tradition for him. But anyhoo, the reason why I'm not with him is becauseI thought I could trust him. Until the year of 2004, on "Sweetest day", I was in the hospital with my son during his recovery from a surgery. Well, the next day or so, it clicked into my head that he's out of area to the point he can't make or receive calls . So, I've called his cell ph. & good thing that I've remembered his password but my heart jumped out as soon as I heard some female's voice asking if they were still on for that night. She didn't leave a name till about a couple of hours & she had left him another message & left her name. I was devistated . Well, I thought I could bite my tongue to see how long he thought he could get away with it but unfortunately, when he came walking in, I asked him where he was going tonight. He said nowhere, "why?" Then I had asked him who "Sue" was. Of course, he lied & really got snippy. So, I told him fine, & that if his phone rings, I want to answer it. Well, that night, she had called. Of course I got to answer it. I answered it & brought his cell ph. down to the comp room which is in basement & asked her questions. I told her that I was his sister until I caught her in a lie. But anyhoo, after I hung up, I wrote her phone number down & gave him his phone back. Thats when things were pretty scarry. He got violent & I mean real violent. Then we moved/bought our own house. Situations now haven't really changed besides his his bark is worse than his bite, for now. Unfortunately, I'm still with him. I'm also looking for a job & still notta. For some odd reason, he's gonna actually let me out to get job(probably thinking he's gonna get my check like he's done in the past). But anyhoo, there's a whole lot to this horrifying ordeal that I've been through & still have to be careful not to get caught "telling".