Looking for Info on Cheater

[mikeb1892]

I am doing research for a sociology class and I am interested in trying to find out information about a cheaters family life while they were growing up. I am not looking for anything in depth, mainly if they had a good relationship with their parents/siblings, and if there we any traumatic situations that they experienced growing up. Thanks for all your help. I look forward to getting some great results. If you don't want to post here, please e-mail me at mikeb1892@yahoo.com

Thanks!

[SuckerFree]

I am doing research for a sociology class and I am interested in trying to find out information about a cheaters family life while they were growing up. I am not looking for anything in depth, mainly if they had a good relationship with their parents/siblings, and if there we any traumatic situations that they experienced growing up. Thanks for all your help. I look forward to getting some great results. If you don't want to post here, please e-mail me at mikeb1892@yahoo.com

Thanks!

I believe this calls for another Chiris Rock quote. "If you grow up and call your grandma mom, and your momma Pam, you are goin to jail". I stated a post a long time ago that people who grew up in single family homes, or have been molested are by far the biggest cheaters I have seen. Growing up with the absence of a Father (a good one) or having the terrible tragedy of getting slammed one in the can leaves a huge void on brain development that never rights itself. These people also seem extremely normal in all facets of life. But watch their behavior when this beast is triggered. Spoiled children are very bad about this as well.

[mikeb1892]

Thanks for your reply. I am very interested to see what other people think about this.

[exhausted]

I found out my wife cheated on me approx. 8 months ago.. Who knows how long she has actually been doing it before I found out..

Anyways background on her and me..

Her Parents are still together..
37 yrs of marriage
They don't drink..
They get along very well together..

MY parents both have past on.
My mother died when I was 8 and my dad when I was 20
My Dad was a alocholic

Now me and the wife..

We are both totally opposite of our parents.
She loves to drink and I don't
She likes the center of attention and I don't

I don't like crowds or the bar scene at all
I don't feel you have to drink to have fun..


Now, I caught her 8 mos. ago cheating on me with her boss.. Which she has worked with for 13+ yrs..(That's where I get the who knows how long it has been going from)
I made her choose between me and my kid or her job..(She chose her family) And I have since given her a second chance..

Anything else you need to know just let me know.. I'm sure I can think of something else..

[mikeb1892]

Anyways background on her and me..

Her Parents are still together..
37 yrs of marriage
They don't drink..
They get along very well together..

MY parents both have past on.
My mother died when I was 8 and my dad when I was 20
My Dad was a alocholic

Anything else you need to know just let me know.. I'm sure I can think of something else..

Thanks for the post. I am finding that most people who cheat had little or no affection from the opposite sex parent while growing up. Now in your description of your and your partners childhood, if I was to guess, I would say that you were the cheater and not her, but this is not the case. I am wondering, did she have a good relationship with her father? And also, when your mother died when you were 8, did you have any strong female influences in your life ( ie. a close grandmother, sister, or mate of your fathers?) Thanks for the info. I look forward to hearing what you have to say.

[exhausted]

Yes.. She was/is close to her father..

And I was raised by my sisters(3) up until I was 11 or so and then my Dad remarried..and they still influenced my growing up.

I had very strong female up bringing.. (My wife jokes about that's why she married me.. Because, I put the toilet seat down)

I adpated well growing up and too my new enviroment, I think.. Also even to this day I really don't remember much of anything before my mother past away..
:(

Think I have blocked it from myself..

But, all facts would state that I'm the cheater..

Trailer park kid and she was upper class living..

I grew up and matured into a very easy going guy who was a pretty much stay at home all of the time.. And she stayed at home pretty much watching kids all of the time..(That's where you get the point of her going out all of the time)..

I did the going out stuff when I was younger it was fun but, too old for that now.

Don't mean to tell ya my life story... But, you asked..;)

anything else?