what to do.....

[Spector]

I would like some advice on a tricky situation. To make a long story short, she's been busted 4 times, the last of which I actually told her that other people knew, and her ways were no longer just our little problem. I told her that it was probably best to just end it, but she swore to me that this time she would prove herself to me. Being a man of my word, I gave her another shot. If anything, it appears to be making no progress, which leads me to this point in time. Her issue also happens to be her coworker. At one point in time, I tracked her (non-work)related emails, and thats how I busted them. I am at the point where I need to know whether they are still at it, and email is guaranteed evidence, since she believes she is safe using her work mail. I know this because I created a ficticious email character and have been talking to her. She denies talking to anyone. Her lies say enough to make me want to know the truth about the one that actually has physical proximity on a daily basis. I have read about self installing goodies, but also about the downside to that. and need HELP! Any ideas???

[brokenwing]

But I say end it. 4 Times and THIS time she's gonna straighten up. Yeah o.k.- I've got that bridge to sell you. Seriously you must love her to put up with it, but you gotta love yourself too. Don't be a doormat. She's gotten away with it too many times and now thinks you'll take her back every time. have cake and eat it syndrome. She's not going to change until you make a move and leave or tell her to. Then see how her remorse turns into blithering idiot anger towards you.Check out the posts on "CYBERBAIT" on this forum. Some ppl think it's a great way to go to catch cheaters.
Good Luck!

[markus]

Yeah **** her off

[jnj express]

you are some kind of punching bag. how many times do you have to get knocked down before you figure it out. IF YOU MUST STAY, because of some kind of sick love affair you have for her, then you need to seperate her from her OM, or i guess co-worker. is her job that important to your marriage, that she can't work elsewhere where she won't have contact with her co-worker. from your post tho it still reads like she is contacting her co-worker or at least trying to. YOU MUST SET UP AN NO CONTACT OR YOU WALK SITUATION

[markus]

I am at the point where I need to know whether they are still at it

Dont be stupid ....... He's banging her pussy every chance he gets

[TxTornado]

shake'n my head here...

Darlin.. the FIRST time you are a victim... after that you are a participant..

[SuckerFree]

shake'n my head here...

Darlin.. the FIRST time you are a victim... after that you are a participant..

I'd like to be the first to welcome our newest abrasive member TxTornado. Markus, looks like we got some competetion.

[monkeyman]

once maybe a mistake,twice is a pisstake but 4 times? Do you honestly still love her, or has she sucked all your self esteem and confidence out of you that you dont think you deserve any better?
Know its not easy but you are going to have to regrow some balls and stand up to her mate. It must be soul destroying for you lying next to her at night knowing what she has done, and if she can do it to you 4 times she is not worthy of being your wife, imo you deserve better.

[exhausted]

JMO... You must like the abuse!! 4X's and you are still there?

Just think, that mouth she has been kissing you with, where has it been?

Hate to be harsh.. but, I look at like everyone else.. Why be with someone who can't stay faithful with you?

[gregor_51]

Thats is still very hard for me to be having sex with my wife now and cant stop thinking about this dude was slamming my wifes ass just like Im doing her now............. Its still hard to forget that, but you have to let it go they tell me....**** no

[markus]

Just imagine that he had a **** the size of your little finger and she pissed herself laughing when he got it out

[ChicagoTRS]

4 strikes and she is way out....