I slept with my friends wife

[bad boy]

Great huh? I feel like the weakest pile of **** that has ever walked the earth. I have been friends with this married couple for the three years that they've been married. I have made myself what I would consider very good friends with the husband. In those years her and i never did anything nor did I make any sexual advances upon her regardless of my lustful attraction to this woman. One night while husband was out of town I ended up at a bar with her and her friend. We got hammered, this is pretty normal for us, usually i just end up in a cab and going home but this time the two girls gave me a ride home and asked me if I wanted to have a threesome when we got to my house (Enter my weakness) I carried out the deed and crossed over into piece of **** human being category. I care about these people deeply, and even though she says that the marriage was on the way out I am odviously a responsible piece of the equation. Now, we have kept it a secret for two weeks and it looks like everything is about to unravel. He has now moved out of their house. I have said nothing to anyone and close friends are now asking questions and giving advice. For whatever reason she has decided to tell every person that will listen about the infidelity. I am confused and lost and have no idea what to do next, especially when its time to face him next. I feel like jumping off a ****in cliff. What do you think?

[markus]

Honesty is the way forward - tell her husband what happened that night and how you feel about the whole situation instead of him letting him hear it from half the neighbourhood - Do it on the phone or write to avoid a slap.
You was wrong to bone his wife but you are not the main cause of their relationship breaking up - Its not your fault his wife is is gagging for **** is it ?

He's a man ... would he be able to refuse what was on offer ?

What do you think the percentage of men are that would walk away from that after a few beers ?

Between 1 to 5 % is my guess and believe me them that walked away are gay

[SuckerFree]

Yeah but, tell us about the threesome? Was it good or what? Last one I had was like 5 years ago. I remember saying I wanna do this again next week. Sigh........ Oh, your question. Umm, you always knew you would do it with her eventually, and deep down you really don't care how he feels. It's kinda like parents sending their kids to school at 4 saying they want them to have a head start, when in reality they just want them outta the house.

[bad boy]

[QUOTE=SuckerFree]Yeah but, tell us about the threesome? Was it good or what? It was pretty damn good

[SuckerFree]

Honesty is the way forward - tell her husband what happened that night and how you feel about the whole situation instead of him letting him hear it from half the neighbourhood - Do it on the phone or write to avoid a slap.
You was wrong to bone his wife but you are not the main cause of their relationship breaking up - Its not your fault his wife is is gagging for **** is it ?

He's a man ... would he be able to refuse what was on offer ?

What do you think the percentage of men are that would walk away from that after a few beers ?

Between 1 to 5 % is my guess and believe me them that walked away are gay


Let's be honest here. What good could possibly come from him telling her Husband. I mean if his wife brings back a friend and not only sleeps with him, but offers a threesome as well. I mean, clearly his wife is badnews. He either already knows this, or is living a blissful lie. Nothing, and I mean nothing positive could come from him knowing. These are the realities of nature. You offer someone sex, they will accept usually. Dont give beggars money, soon their won't be any beggars. Simple as that. People are like this, friend, neighbor, best friend, 2,5,10,20 years, they will bang your spouse. Don't tell her husband, no matter how much you would love to see the drama (which is why people rat out each other, not benevolence).

[bad boy]

This woman screams sexual tyranosaurus x, she makes men and women alike fall all over her. I know she has been unfaithful before,with women though. The husband in the past it seems has let it slide, it must be cuz he likes her with chicks, when he caught her red handed nothing ever really came of it. She has always wore the pants in this family. She frightens me as well with talk of the future with me. I don't think she really wants that I think she just doesnt want him. The past two weeks has shown me that this woman is a time bomb, and I like a jackass am standing next to it. I'm not so sure either friendship is salvageable, but I'd like some advice. Keep in mind this guy is one of my good friends not to mention one of the most quality humans i've ever met, I feel like she ripped his heart out and I stomped on it.

[crissy]

Man seem to do better when one of their buddies has screwed the wife/girlfriend. It's almost like a ritual game between the brotherhood of ****s. Now if it had been a co-worker or the gardner, or the personal trainner. You'd be none repairable. Knowing now from brief description of wife, we have learned that she is into tricks and ready willing and able to trick it out there. SO man up so to say to the husband (not the wife) You've already manned that hole. and come clean, (No punt intended there) Tell him you feel very bad at what has happend and want to know what it will take to fix it minus him putting a whooping on your face. good luck with all that. FUN FUN FUN

[SuckerFree]

Man seem to do better when one of their buddies has screwed the wife/girlfriend. It's almost like a ritual game between the brotherhood of ****s. Now if it had been a co-worker or the gardner, or the personal trainner. You'd be none repairable. Knowing now from brief description of wife, we have learned that she is into tricks and ready willing and able to trick it out there. SO man up so to say to the husband (not the wife) You've already manned that hole. and come clean, (No punt intended there) Tell him you feel very bad at what has happend and want to know what it will take to fix it minus him putting a whooping on your face. good luck with all that. FUN FUN FUN

Not me, I knew my friend for 15 years. To this day I still will not talk to him.

[exhausted]

Well, Your damned it if you do and your damned if you don't...

I think no matter what you do or say your friend will not likely be your friend again..

keep us posted!!

[brokenwing]

Well I guess for the heat of the moment you let your **** do all of your thinking. What a mess for a few minutes of pleasure. Now this guy who has been your "Friend" has to know he has been betrayed by TWO people he thought were on his side. I don't know man. You aren't alone in not being able to keep it in your pants over a beautifull (flirty) piece but ask yourself "If I could go back would I do it again?" You feel bad NOW what kept you from thinking about the consequences THEN? Funny..we drive drunk hoping NOT to get pulled over. You screw someone else's wife HOPING not to get caught. But do we stick our hand in a lit fireplace HOPING not get burned--of course not. We all know what consequences our actions will bring. So the only real reason for being sorry for it is that you got caught (or soon it will be out). So the only thing the person with a D.U.I. learns (hopefully) is DON"T DO THAT AGAIN!!!! He also learns that he has to pay once he's caught. Own up to it with your friend and hope for the best while expecting to pay a fine for your behavior.

[tomasingm]

and your friend's wife is a hoe...

In the old days you would have been challenged to a duel.