It is truly sad....

[Honestman209]

Excuse my language but all I am seeing is what is happening to women??? This is the pussification of the American man. The self-entitled spoiled American **** of a wife cheats on you and it is your fault??... Then cry for her back??....

Dear God this is what man kind is reducing itself too. First of all to you cheating wives. You cheated on him because you felt neglected, why not divorce him because you feel neglected and then you aren't a ****??... Secondly, *****ing about husbands??? Like an adulteress is a misunderstood victim. Here is a reality check for you. American men are the most desired husbanda IN THE WORLD. They are good father's, tolerant of self-entitled cheating wives, hard-workers, and great providers. The truth of the matter is that if any American man rather than taking you back would travel to various parts of the world he would meet women that you in your primes could not compete with. That value and honor a family, not only your husband but your children as well. When you commit adultery you disgrace your children's honor. No one wants to have a **** for a mom wtf?

I am not shovinistic or a jerk I am a realist. American women have taken feminism (which is wonderful in its purest form) and have twisted it to conform to justify irresponsiblity by rationalizing it as a sense of entitlement.

A dear friend of mine in Florida recently caught his wife (and mother of his 4 daughters cheating on him) with his friend at a club in Tampa. People had been telling him but he didnt believe it after all it was his wife and mother of 4daughters. Until one day she went out (alegedly to see some cousins that were visiting) and some one saw her with another guy. They text message him on his cel and he went over there hauling ass just in the nick of time to see her making out with this rico suave type. When he arrived he had he was kind enough to hit rico suave in the side of his head rendering him on inchoerrent he then proceed to drag her out by the hair and throw her in the car. Now keep in mind that you'd think that most people would try to help the **** as seeing this poor victim is being dragged to her car. They just got on cel phones to call the cops. On the down the free way home he did not hit her, just called her every name that degrades a woman. He then ripped off her clothes and through her on the side of the road 41 I believe the one that takes you from Tampa to land O lakes. His logic was that if she was going to be a ***** she might as well do it all the way. Luckily for her an enderly couple went by picked her up covered her and took her to the hospital thinking she was raped. By the time the police showed up to his house he had already told the kids what had happened. Long story short he was arrested but not charged (dunno why) Miss wifey is living with her mom since her kids hate and lost all respect for her. THey dont want to live with her as they know she is responsible for the demise of their family. Oh by the way if mommy or daddy cheats the kids have a right to know. Why??... Because if you split they will think its because of them and its not fair to them. I am not telling you this story becuase I that is the way matters should be dealt with I am sharing it because feelings of love, passion, anger and betrayal can be very dangerous. Also til this day the self-entitled princess says it was his fault becuase he worked all the time. He was starting a contruction company had a nice home for her spoiled ass, and had to keep food on the table for four kids.

http://www.nomarriage.com/

I love my wife more than any thing in the world and she loves me passionately. She has told me that if i ever cheated on her she'd kill me. Hell if I did it and did that to my son I would deserve for her to kill me I would never shame my home, my wife or my children they are my life.

[markus]

The problem is you American men are full of **** - you visulise the perfect family
children , garage , nice car , good job & go to church ... and then you go off all happy playing golf thinking how great it is having such a wonderfull life and along the way you dont think if your wife is enjoying it as much as you
your work becomes your social life and you enjoy it while your wife is at home watching Rickki lake and dreaming of a Knight in shining Armour to turn up and save her from the misery
Then one day she gets attention from another man , you dont notice because your head is stuck up your own arse so far that it would take a JCB to get it back out
six months later she infaturated with another man and your shoutung at her ' how can you do this to me ' when i gave you everything ( except what she really wanted most )
Begging Come back ... how can you leave the perfect American man ?

[SuckerFree]

[QUOTE=markus]The problem is you American men are full of **** - you visulise the perfect family
children , garage , nice car , good job & go to church ... and then you go off all happy playing golf thinking how great it is having such a wonderfull life and along the way you dont think if your wife is enjoying it as much as you
your work becomes your social life and you enjoy it while your wife is at home watching Rickki lake and dreaming of a Knight in shining Armour to turn up and save her from the misery
Then one day she gets attention from another man , you dont notice because your head is stuck up your own arse so far that it would take a JCB to get it back out
six months later she infaturated with another man and your shoutung at her ' how can you do this to me ' when i gave you everything ( except what she really wanted most )
Begging Come back ... how can you leave the perfect American man ?


Wow, I'm wondering if Marcus really believes this? I like how Brits and Aussies always say "you Americans". Can you say inferiortiy complex? Umm, down-under isn't much better in the ole relationship department. In fact it's probably worse. At least you guys get 3 months of paid vacation to try and make things work. But you know, hey, we got work we gotta do over here. If the scenerio you have painted is in fact real (BTW, this is known as the straw-man argument). How do you suggest going around it and winning? So, let's review. Today's "American" man, even though you have probably never been to the US (and yes I have been to OZ, several times) needs to be #1 a workaholic provider #2 worldclass lover #3 take the weight of the family on his shoulders #4 always be there for every problem. And while we are at work all day, feminized TV is turning men into menacing apes all day (ever wonder why those shows like Oprah stop running at 4 and 5pm)? So, what you are saying is, even though we do everything we can, it's ok for your wife to run off and get some strange because we haven't made every minute of her life enlightening? Here's a test, try and find a female coal-miner who makes the statement "I don't need a man"? She doesn't exist. Necessity is the single most important thing in life. And Men happen to provide it very well for the most part. Cheating ultimately comes down to a wrongful sense of entitlement and selfishness. Not what someone's ideal lifestyle should be.

[SuckerFree]

In all fairness though Marcus. More and more Men are realizing that Marriage is a raw deal. Marriage rates in the US have dropped every year for the past 2 decades. In some states marriage rates have gotten so low, and divorce rates have gotten so high, that the state has simply stopped reporting the numbers.

[tillymint]

Bravo Marcus.. well said..

However, dont think its fair to generalise this to American men.. the majority of Brit men fall into this catogory as well..

To the original poster, Ive never heard such a pile of manure in my whole life :)

Im sorry but pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeese !!! What a caveman attitude :)

Ok, so some women do stay at home and do all the chores, look after kids, make sure everything runs like clockwork for the "man" BUT this is by no means an "easy job" and just because its not "paid" should not be seen as contributing less to the marriage just because the mans the one bringing in the money.. I work full time, plus have a 6 year old, plus try and work round my partners shift work, plus try and meet all of his needs and I do this because I LOVE him NOT because Im stuck in some archaic attitude of "women should be subservient to man."

And as for your dear friend, he should be utterly ashamed of himself as you should be also for almost commending his actions..

"He ripped off her clothes and threw her on the side of the road and left her there."

God, why didnt he tar and feather her at the same time just for good measure !! And if she had managed to get home, he could have forced her to walk the street naked, whilst the neighbours lined up to stone her :D

And hey if she had been raped, murdered and god knows what else then it would have been no less than she deserved, right ? WTF !!

And if this had happend, her kids would have been ok with this because knowing that their mother was a cheat was enough to justify their father leaving her to that fate.

And contrary to your assertion that you are not chauvanistic, your whole post smacks of it !

Till x

[SuckerFree]

Women will always tell you how difficult being a stay at home mom is, but will never volunteer to switch roles. If I told a Woman I stayed at home at took care of the chores and my wife worked, most Women would assume I was lazy. Just funny how that always works.

[SuckerFree]

Oh, and I don't believe a word of the original posters story. A man (in the state of Florida of all places!!!) can just walk up to another man, sucker punch him and knock him out cold. Torture his wife, and have no legal course against him. Honestly, i think the post is a fraud, perhaps someone looking to stir the pot. If it isn't, I would love to know this guy's attorney.

[SuckerFree]

Children will rarely take the Father's side of a divorce. I hate to say this, but I honestly believe a Women wrote the first post. Some incredibly lopsided, brutal story of a lunatic that walks scot-free, then ties into a site that isn't favorable to Women to say the least. I am well aware of that site, and it's forum that it offers. There has been for well over a year now (and at one point successful) an attempt to have it banished from the web. A rival site known as makehimpay.net has been dispatching ladies to attack the site wherever they can. I know this sounds a bit paranoid, but I would not be shocked at all if it was them.

[markus]

Wow, I'm wondering if Marcus really believes this?

Nah :D i think its the same in most western countries these days , it just gets on my nerves when i hear this 'American Man' bull****
the most desired husband IN THE WORLD ?
Ive never heard a women here in the UK say she would love to be swept off her feet by an American :D
They like romantic European bull****ters most - get one of them sniffing around your Mrs and you have problems :D

[SuckerFree]

I don't know. When I was in Australia, they sure flocked to me. Things are probably changing I would assume.

[SuckerFree]

Marcus, I went to 2 stores after work today and neither sold Newcastle Brown Ale. Take pity on us yanks from time to time.

[markus]

What kind of a store dont sell Newcastle Brown Ale :D they should be closed down
Actually i do quite like America even though they cursed me when i married my ***** on a beach over there in Florida lol

[maddogtracie]

Honestman....You should listen to Gretchen Wilsons song "Full Time Job"....I am that American stay at home mom, and This is a little about me...
My husband works for the railroad (very hard work), and I stay at home. If you think that means I stay at home and do nothing your sooooo wrong! I am the accountant, gardener, landscaper, dry cleaner, taxi cab driver, baby sitter, teacher, maid, nurse, counselor, scheduler, **** picker upper, garbage woman, and love making machine to my husband. He may work for the family but without me his family would not work!

Now there are some women out there that do take advantage of there situations, and yes they should all be damned. However that is not what every American woman is about.

What about the men who have it all (as my husband does), and go out looking for something else? And why is it that women cheat because they aren't getting enough and men seem to cheat to get more? No i'm not condoning cheating in any way, but is it not true?

[SuckerFree]

Thanks Maddog for that post. It really made me laugh, I love a good joke.....ohh wait, you were being serious.

[maddogtracie]

Hey Sucker...you really must not like me.....Anyway yes I was being serious. Just as many women don't feel that there are any "good guys" left out there, you men seem to think that there are no "good girls" out there. But we do exist.

Also I am truly sorry for what ever some woman has done to you, but don't take it out on the rest of us ok?

[SuckerFree]

It has nothing to do with what a Woman has done to me. Personally I feel I have always held the upper hand with Women. With the exception of a few old situations. I just happen to think a working man has a more difficult task than a stay at home Mother. Why is it someone always has to ask the proverbial "not all Women are like that". Of course not, but we are discussing the one's that are.

[SuckerFree]

Hey Sucker...you really must not like me.....Anyway yes I was being serious. Just as many women don't feel that there are any "good guys" left out there, you men seem to think that there are no "good girls" out there. But we do exist.

Also I am truly sorry for what ever some woman has done to you, but don't take it out on the rest of us ok?


I haven't taken anything out on anyone. Nice shaming language BTW. I simply retort to your flimsy arguments and back-handed post.

[jencool]

First of all, why is it that a women that has an affair is rendered a **** her entire life, but a man that has an affair is acceptable- BULL ****. We are not hearing both sides of the story are we?? What is her reasoning for the affair? I know way too many women at this time in my life that give up the chance to be someone and earn a lot of money to have children - and what happens? their husbands do not allow them to go out because they do not want to be alone with the BABY!!! It is such a double standard. When a woman stays with the child all day, she is being a mother, when a man stays with their child they are babysitting - it makes me sick!!!!! I don't blame the poor women that doesn't feel wanted by her husband and seeks attention elsewhere. As far as someone pulling my hair and allowing them to strip me nude and leave me on the side of the road for someone else to pick up - that goes to show you that this man was obviously barbaric and ignorant. Let's turn the tables for a minute and say why seek revenge when HE could have just left. You want the woman to go quietly into the night but it is OK for the man to digrade her - BULL ****. It's time we stick up for ourselves and believe that NO MAN or WOMAN will waiver our faith in ourselves and the things we can accomplish - call me what you want, but women need to believe in themselves and NEVER allow another person to degrade them!!!! No matter what the situation is.

[night shifter]

who the hell wants a stinking european woman anyway. screw that crap.
there isn't a sane woman in this world. i know this now. your all full of crap and opera, oh wait, thats crap too!
i like my women home grown, and country-fried. jk.
you all need to stop watching life-time and get us a sandwitch. lol!
how many of you jack-ass women that have been cheated on by a man would love to kill him? come on, don't act so gd innocent. so if a guys wife was a skank, she should be left on the side of the road like the piece of s--t she is. i also believe in the electric chair and ear for an ear.
you dumn-a-- brits or whatever you are don't get it yet. as far as us AMERICANS are concerned there are no other countries. were alone in this world and don't need no stinking allies! screw you and your queen and prime whatever. why don't you do something right for once so we don't have to bail you out. and pay back some of our $$$!

[tillymint]

From your posting, it doesnt sound like you're quite sane yourself at the moment :)

Pleeeeeeese.. whats all this one man and his land crap !

Since when was this a political forum and one for hurling abuse at others ?

I may only be a dumb a** brit, and God forbid a female one at that, but isnt the intention of this site to help others who are facing infidelity in their life ?

Just my two pennies worth, and Ill now crawl back to the kitchen to knock up that sandwich for you dear ~~~~~grin~~~~~ :)

Tilly x

[sweetface212]

Oh geez, here we go again, with that same ole "men-work-harder-than-women-work-harder-than-men" bs.. Let's all just get over it.. We ALL work WAY TOO HARD, and we don't need to try to out-do the other in order to gain some sort of imaginary esteem.. There are bigger problems in the world than all this nonsense.

First of all, I'm an American woman who happens to ADORE men, from all over the world (my favorites tend to be Italians and Middle Eastern men :) ) I've been cheated on by an AMERICAN man who did me VERY dirty and wrong, at a young age, yet I NEVER CHEATED ON HIM FOR REVENGE OR ANY OTHER REASON. I left him, took what I could from the lesson, and moved on.. NOT ONCE did I think just because that guy was a loser, every man is the same.. I just took it for what it was.

My point? Let's all just get over ourselves (and yes I mean you, Mr. "America doesn't need any allies" and so on) and focus on more important things. Like Tilly said, this isn't a forum for political rants, or a woman/men bashing club. It's a place where people can come when they need a voice to talk to them, and an ear to listen. Let's all just try to keep it that way. Let's all count to ten, take a deep breath, let it out, and CHILL THE F*CK OUT... Kay? Kay..

[sweetface212]

And did you really use the word "pussification"? Who SAYS that?!

[night shifter]

make it two sandwitches.
maybe you should read your last few posts miss innocent.
don't come in here and bash my country and the proud men that are in it.
it isn't a political forum but it isn't a man bashing ither...dear!
maybe your just not used to people sticking up for themselves, their homeland, YOU.
peace, love, and happieness...crappp!!!
i'm sorry. i like to throw down when people talk to much smack!

[night shifter]

and for the rest of you nut jobs.
its ok, all through this topic for you all to say this and that about whatever your complaining about men and you have it just as tuff and so on.
i'm sorry but not many of us MEN here are really arguing it. but...
for instance, my wife, god-bless her for dealing with this arse-hole (thats for the brit) works and makes literally half what i make but that pays the mortgage. what i make is for everything else. could i pay the mortgage and everything else myself??? n.o.!
does she complain? n.o.
we have no kids and i'm not sure i want any, i like my life especially after i opened up my eyes to what i actually have and could have lost.
i love her dearly.
my hole point is her and i split up everything including chores. she gets the inside, i get the out. she knows how hard i work and i know how hard she works. theres never an argument there.
you ladies and millions of others can't really think that all men look down on you that much can you.? thats fricken ludicrous. for real!
but one thing is for sure. when all you have to ***** about is some crap you hurd on that dumb-ass ***** opera or something you plainly made up in your brains you wear thin on us. get a grip, get some self-esteem, and take a good look at the whole picture not just what you want to see but whats real!
men care about you, love you, want you, need you, are sick about you. but don't poision it by making something that isn't into something that is.
stop with your stinken head games, say what the hell you mean. don't play those dumb fricken games!!!
last time i checked i was given birth by a woman.
women can be skanks and men can be bastards. but we all can be alot worse, killers, rapists, TERRORISTS. but we aren't all that way...get it.
some of the old school men liked it the way it was back in the olden days for one reason, there was none of this crap.
me, i like it this way. i think a women should do what the hell she wants as long as she isn't nagging me to death. and i like the fact she works and we can have the nicer things in life. and most importantly...HAVE FUN.
just my two pennies worth...WHAT? who says that? oh wait.

[tillymint]

I have NEVER been disrespectful towards your country or american men.

I have american family, uncles, aunties and cousins so there is no way I would intentionally do this..

I do not think I have slated men either. correct me if Im wrong !

As for the saying "just my two pennies worth", this is obviously a Brit saying and is used over here all the time.. Im also proud of my homeland.

Ok so you say you have a 50/50 split chore marriage and if you had said that in your earlier posting, you wouldnt have any come back. But you didnt. You gave out the impression that "a womans place is in the kitchen" and people picked up on it and gave their opinions.

all I have tried to convey in this thread is that this is not a political or men v woman forum.

Tilly

[tillymint]

And as for you calling everyone else who has replied nut jobs, these are the same nut jobs who have taken time out to try and help you with your own infidelity issues.

Calling them nutjobs in my opinion is disrespectful.

Tilly

[SuckerFree]

all I have tried to convey in this thread is that this is not a political or men v woman forum.


True, but you gotta admit, since me and Marcus turned it into that, this board is a helluva lot more interesting. Man, was this board a stinker.

[markus]

I think its fair to say that were all insane in the membrane or we wouldn't be here :D
I wondered today how the hell do you go forward in life guaranteed that you wont be affected by infidelity again and then i had an idea
i will go back to the hypnotherapist and make her turn me gay but even them ****ers cheat on each other :rolleyes:

[exhausted]

I think its fair to say that were all insane in the membrane or we wouldn't be here :D
I wondered today how the hell do you go forward in life guaranteed that you wont be affected by infidelity again and then i had an idea
i will go back to the hypnotherapist and make her turn me gay but even them ****ers cheat on each other :rolleyes:


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[night shifter]

yes this has become a more interesting thread.
i am however done arguing my point.
as far as my calling anyone here a nutjob...i guess i should have been more clear in whom i meant that for.
besides the women in the world as a whole (no one here in particular) that make mountains out of mole hills are indeed the ones i'm singling out. oh and you tillymint.
if i hurt anyones feelings and i highly doubt that i did, sorry!
all i have to say is "pot calling the kettle black".

[confused]

Yup...looks like a person posted a post to "stir the pot"...

for...i have not SEEN the man post since.

And "stir the pot" it did...

i'm only sorry i didn't have a chance to jump in *laffin*

[night shifter]

its never too late.
start stirring, its great!
poet and didn't know it.;)

[GED]

You Are A Good Man,honest Man I Agree With The Way You Think Entirely

Regards Ged

[GED]

The problem is you American men are full of **** - you visulise the perfect family
children , garage , nice car , good job & go to church ... and then you go off all happy playing golf thinking how great it is having such a wonderfull life and along the way you dont think if your wife is enjoying it as much as you
your work becomes your social life and you enjoy it while your wife is at home watching Rickki lake and dreaming of a Knight in shining Armour to turn up and save her from the misery
Then one day she gets attention from another man , you dont notice because your head is stuck up your own arse so far that it would take a JCB to get it back out
six months later she infaturated with another man and your shoutung at her ' how can you do this to me ' when i gave you everything ( except what she really wanted most )
Begging Come back ... how can you leave the perfect American man ? MARKUS YOU ARENT A MAN YOU ARE A WOMEN WE CAN TELL THAT BY YOUR FEMININE REPLY DO YOU WEAR SKIRTS

[markus]

And a thong

[markus]

oh dear we have a Mancunian gay blade on the forum

[Duck Quacker]

I have to say you have a lot of good points :) anyone with a brain, heart and some inteligence if not experience can not deny that !

Keep up the good Moral standings and Life is just easier for everyone
if everyone did that . The Golden Rule , treat others as you want to be treated yourself and things would be better for all .

Tryth is Truth wether we want to recognize it or not, History repeats tself to proove this always :) on any human existance level we mess up the same way over and over for not paying attention.

Basicaly I agree in the escence of your message and that should be said !

GB
Duck Quacker :)

[MuffinMan]

The problem is you American men are full of ****?

Now wait just a damn minute markus...I KNOW you aren't speaking to me as well

[MuffinMan]

Bravo Marcus.. well said..

However, dont think its fair to generalise this to American men.. the majority of Brit men fall into this catogory as well..

So basically, since his premise is that American men work hard at their jobs, this is justification for the wife cheating on them? Thats some fine appreciation for providing for the family.

To the original poster, Ive never heard such a pile of manure in my whole life :)

Yes, he did take if over the top...but I believe he was just letting out some anger. Sounds like he has a good wife and he is good to her, but I think he was bitter because his friend actually went through this.


And as for your dear friend, he should be utterly ashamed of himself as you should be also for almost commending his actions..

"He ripped off her clothes and threw her on the side of the road and left her there."

God, why didnt he tar and feather her at the same time just for good measure !! And if she had managed to get home, he could have forced her to walk the street naked, whilst the neighbours lined up to stone her :D

And hey if she had been raped, murdered and god knows what else then it would have been no less than she deserved, right ? WTF !!

If this truly happened it was because he was pushed too far and freaked out...not condoning it mind you.

My wife cheated while we were engaged, although I didn't find out bout it until 7 years and 2 kids later.

But I always said if I came home and caught her in my bed, or anywhere else in the house, I'd slap a sleeper hold on the guy, drag his ass downstairs, and throw him out without his clothes....then I'd go back upstairs....grab her, and throw her out without her clothes too.....then call the cops.

I would not hit my wife, but I do believe forcibly removing her from the house is in order if I caught her in the act.

I just hope that if I do catch her and another guy in the act, that it is about 40 degrees outside when I throw them out naked as jaybirds.

[MuffinMan]

Women will always tell you how difficult being a stay at home mom is, but will never volunteer to switch roles.

Oh I am not saying it is completely easy, but my wife left for a week with her mom because her mother was having surgery.

I took vacation and stayed home with the kids...it was the best week ever. Not only did I have a great time with my boys, the house was spotless all week, and this was a 1 and 4 year old I was watching...she always complained about how it isnt easy....don't know..I found it easier than she lets on. And she stays home because she wants to, not because we decided she should.
Needless to say, when she got back and I went back to work, the house was a mess within 2 days again.

I saw an Oprah where the stay at home mom left for just a weekend while the dad took care of the house and kids...boy would I have loved to have been on that show. They probably wouldn't have aired it cuz I wouldn't have proven their point for them.

[MuffinMan]

What kind of a store dont sell Newcastle Brown Ale :D they should be closed down
Actually i do quite like America even though they cursed me when i married my ***** on a beach over there in Florida lol

Yo markus....what exactly is Baby Sham?

[Skirtchaser]

ahh Markus, the reason American women are that way is because American men's tool's are usually much larger and more experianced than our european counterparts. :cool:

[MuffinMan]

What about the men who have it all (as my husband does), and go out looking for something else? And why is it that women cheat because they aren't getting enough and men seem to cheat to get more? No i'm not condoning cheating in any way, but is it not true?

No its not. And dammit tracie your kind of pissin me off here. You are saying that men are dogs when they cheat and women are justified when they cheat by what you just said.

You said men cheat to have more, making them pigs, as of course they would be....and women cheat because they aren't getting enough, therefore justifying their cheating...or at least making it sound understandable when women cheat.

[MuffinMan]

First of all, why is it that a women that has an affair is rendered a S!UT her entire life, but a man that has an affair is acceptable- BULL SH!T. We are not hearing both sides of the story are we??

Sure you are, you just aren't reading that many posts on here. If you ever follow Suckerfree, Markus, or a few of us frequents...we give it to men who are cheaters big time. But since we were cheated on by our spouses, we tend to circle in the "Cheating Wives" section a little more.

What is her reasoning for the affair? I know way too many women at this time in my life that give up the chance to be someone and earn a lot of money to have children - and what happens? their husbands do not allow them to go out because they do not want to be alone with the BABY!!!

I don't allow my wife to go out on the weekends anymore...call it controlling if you want...but here is the story. She wanted to stay home with the kids while I was the sole provider...didn't sit well with me, but I loved her, so I sacrificed monetary gains for her desire to raise the kids at home.
So quite a few weekends a month she would want to go out for drinks with the "girls" because she was "couped up" at home with the kids all week.
So like a good little husband I stayed at home with them, and I was glad to do that for her...sometimes waiting up until 3 in the morning for her to get home.

That all stopped when I found out she had a history of cheating on me that I learned from an old friend of hers that she pi$$ed off.
From that point on, I told her if she wants to act like a college floosy, she can pack her bags and leave, WITHOUT my children.

So she f#cked up a perfectly good arrangement and lost what I consider to be the perfect husband. The ball is in my court now and will be from now on.


When a woman stays with the child all day, she is being a mother, when a man stays with their child they are babysitting - it makes me sick!!!!!

Try seeing how sick you get when you are the man that stays home to let your wife go out, then finding out that you have been played for a fool for all these years.

I don't blame the poor women that doesn't feel wanted by her husband and seeks attention elsewhere.

Ah, here we go....who said the husband didn't want her in that post?
And even if there is some neglect, it in NO WAY justifies cheating.

You have proven with this comment above that you are the defender of cheating women...and you want to talk about what makes you sick? Well honey, women like you make me want to vomit.
As a man who treated his wife like a queen, showed her attention all the time...hell, I wanted to make love every night to my wife if she would have let me...I take great offense to women like you who "don't blame" a woman who cheated because of some perceived "neglect"

As far as someone pulling my hair and allowing them to strip me nude and leave me on the side of the road for someone else to pick up - that goes to show you that this man was obviously barbaric and ignorant.

I could try to justify his actions the way you justify why women cheat...but I won't stoop to your level. Bad behavior is bad behavior...no matter who exhibits it.

Let's turn the tables for a minute and say why seek revenge when HE could have just left. You want the woman to go quietly into the night but it is OK for the man to digrade her - BULL ****.

When you say "You want"....who are you talking about?

Whether a man or woman is the cheater, either way, the cheater needs to be degraded...I feel it is the victim's right to lash out at them...vocally not physically. However, I would throw my wife and a lover out of my house physically while still naked if I came home and caught them in my bed. Would you say it is wrong to throw them out of the house if I caught them? The man would have a sleeper hold slapped on him as he would probably try to muscle his way out(but it would be useless with my sleeper hold), but I would simply take my wife by the arm and lead her downstairs and out the door...no hitting or slapping of any kind.

It's time we stick up for ourselves and believe that NO MAN or WOMAN will waiver our faith in ourselves and the things we can accomplish - call me what you want, but women need to believe in themselves and NEVER allow another person to degrade them!!!! No matter what the situation is.

So you are saying I dont have the right to yell at my wife and call her what she is, a cheating wh0re, if I found out she was f#cking some other guy?

Ah, protecting the female cheater...its what your all about isn't it?

[BlackDove]

Hello to all. This is my first post in this forum.

Well, honestman209 here’s my $0.02.

Dear God this is what man kind is reducing itself too.
Man has always been this way, going way back to Adam and Even in the Garden of Eden. Although God specifically told Adam and Eve not to eat of a certain tree, he listened to his wife instead and chowed down. Then, he blamed the woman and God for his actions.

And the man said, The woman whom You gave to be with me--she gave me (fruit) from the tree, and I ate.

Man has a history of doing this.

Like an adulteress is a misunderstood victim. Here is a reality check for you. American men are the most desired husbanda IN THE WORLD. They are good father's, tolerant of self-entitled cheating wives, hard-workers, and great providers. The truth of the matter is that if any American man rather than taking you back would travel to various parts of the world he would meet women that you in your primes could not compete with. That value and honor a family, not only your husband but your children as well. When you commit adultery you disgrace your children's honor. No one wants to have a **** for a mom wtf?

I do agree that American men have the potential to be good fathers and that they are sought by foreign women, however foreign women who seek out American men usually have one thing in mind, and that’s money. I’ve lived in Prague, Berlin, Tokyo, and various other cities overseas, and I can tell you that foreign women and American women are essentially the same, save one tiny difference—they don’t know what Western Life is really like. The only thing they have to go by is what they see on television. Foreign women are fascinated with Hollywood culture. When I lived in Prauge, the people there actually believed that every American lived like the ones they saw on television. It’s this that drives them to Americans—the promise of money, of living an easy life of privilege and leisure.

Thai women for example are always looking to “upgrade” on boyfriends. If she finds a man that makes more than the one she’s currently involved with, she has no problem dropping the one she’s with in favor of the one with more money. There are plenty of online scams going on … these women will sit in chat rooms for hours on end, trying to get western men to send them money. They seem to have caught on to the fact that they are in demand. With that in mind, be prepared to shell out some serious cash, as they most certainly will raise their prices.

Russia has one of the highest divorce rates in the world, quite possibly higher than America. And while the women are pretty to look at while young, they pack on some serious weight as they age. It’s the same with Italian women.

Japanese and Chinese, and the rest of the “eses” are just as bad as western women, only they’re more cunning about it, and far, far, more manipulative. They’ll tell you exactly what you want to hear. Take it from me, I have several military friends who were stationed in Korea, and some in Japan. They each married foreign women and they told me, “Damn, those women are slick. You think you know all the games and lies an American woman can pull, wait till one of these pulls one over on you.”

The truth is, a woman isn’t superior just because she’s from a foreign country. All people have faults and virtues. You’re not going to find the perfect woman ever. All marriages involve a serious risk. I know this, and I’ve never been married or even in a romantic relationship. It’s just common sense.

[Skirtchaser]

ahh I disagree, I did find the perfect woman. I kept her too. By the way she is a Texas Woman. :)