Wife Chat Addiction

[gtcando]

Here's my story. My wife and I don't get along. She spends time in "Romance", "Big & Beautiful", "Unhappily Married" type chat rooms. She chats intimate details to complete strangers. Eventually, she focuses in on a few. She will share pictures (not nude), give our personal information and even allow them to call her at home (She's stays home to watch our kids).

I bought software to record everything that goes on. Catching her doing it is not a problem. The real problem is "what to do about it". I'd like to hear from other guys that are struggling with staying in a loveless marriage for financial reasons and to be with their kids.

[markus]

You have to start wearing the trousers , She's not working so you have to take away the fat cow's luxuries starting with the internet - bin her PC
She's got no right to use your hard earned money talking to perverts
Educate the ***** ... buy her a couple of books on infidelty and make her read 'rescue relationship' by Phil Mcgraw
it wont make her perfect but if she makes an improvement untill the kids grow to an age when they are not so dependent on you financially and then you can dump the slapper and find a real bird

[maddogtracie]

I have to agree with Marcus on this.

I am a stay at home mother. I am also in nursing school. I spend my days doing all of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, children....and yes men I even cut the grass:) . Anyway my point is that I do get on line to chat wth others, but would never chat with people like that. And yes I am here because of my husband, but even with that it would not be right for me to that to him. 2 wrongs don't make a right.

So what I'm saying is that what your wife is doing is very disrespectful to you, and to your family, ie: having them call her, and giving out personal info, and you should at the very least tell her to quit. Don't know what problems if any you had before, but you will never be able to get past any of it if she continues to chat with these people.

[exhausted]

You have to start wearing the trousers , She's not working so you have to take away the fat cow's luxuries starting with the internet - bin her PC

EXACTLY!!!!

You know what they say one thing leads to another... It might not be sex.. but, who to say it want be in a week or 6 months from now?

Tell her whats on your mind and tell her if she don't quit you are!!JMO

[exhausted]

Offer To Set Up A 4 Sum So That She Can Deal W/the Real Thing Rather Then Spending Time Reading About Others.


:mad: Your starting to bug me!!!