Did she do it

[Byroneck2004]

Im new to this site but need some help. Well to start off I have been married for 6 years im 26 and she is 23. Our first years were great then came the third. She wanted a job and since I was on workmans comp at the time I said sure why not I could watch the baby and she could make a little money and feel good about herself and it would do some good for us not to be together 24 hours a day. Well to get to it she started coming home late wouldnt answer cell phones stuff like that. Wel I got a phone call one day from a girl claiming to be this guys wife and she told me her husband was haveing an affair with my wife. ANyways at first she denide it then finally admitted it. But says she never had sex with him only kissing now this affair was going on for at least a month or two. Anyways I forgave her for that. Now I get a call from my family telling me while me and her where split up she slept with my Brother. After asking her about this she swore on our kids lives 3 that she never did it. Who should I believe her or 4 people that told me she did it. Guys or girls I need some help with this one i have 2 kids and she is pregnant. I cant eat sleep or hardly think.:confused:

[exhausted]

Byron..

My story is like yours kindof.. My did the samething(KISSING)!! It's the samething but, worse(I think).. A kiss is more emotional to a woman than just sex is to a man... IMO it is worse than sex!! If these are friends telling you this.. More than likely they are telling you this to help you..

I know your wife is your friend also.. but, it sounds like to me she will say anything to keep you from knowing the truth or making you mad..

[SuckerFree]

Well of course you can't believe her. I mean, you think these 4 people just dreamed up this story. She has already cheated once and she's only 23. Imagine her at 30 when she really get's horny. Also, as far as her being pregnant. I would demand a DNA test for that child. You could wind up paying for that one as well, and the child might not be yours. People who get caught cheating will typically try to minimalize the damage. Oh, it was just dinner, we just kissed, it was innocent I swear. They are lying....always. Your wife has cheated on you at least twice so far. For this many people to come tell you tells me you are oblivious to the signs. You're screwed. Hate to say it, but it's true.

[exhausted]

She has already cheated once and she's only 23. Imagine her at 30 when she really get's horny. Also, as far as her being pregnant. I would demand a DNA test for that child. You could wind up paying for that one as well, and the child might not be yours. . You're screwed. Hate to say it, but it's true.


The truth right there!!!

[repulsive]

have you asked your brother? who has the most to gain from a lie? if so your brother is a piece of crap. you deserve better get your babies and get out.

[confused]

Your question on this thread....i think has been answered already.

Sometimes its SO HARD to see the truth....even when its right there in front of us. We're on the "inside".

But why would your family want to hurt you? Why would your brother want to subject himself to this?

Your family is your family. I mean. hey..i could absolutely HATE MY SISTERS HUSBAND...but be DAMNED if i'm going to "lie" and say he had an AFFAIR..and that affair was with ME...her SISTER!

come on now.

Wake up and realize it IS TRUE.

Also...you've been married for 6 years? Wow.....she was then 17!

Is your oldest child also 6? Did you marry because of pregnancy? If you did....i commend you for doing the "right thing"....but.....your marriage could be based on all the wrong things for a "foundation" in the first place.

I say definately make some decisions and get some dna tests. This is hurting you yes...but if you're on workers comp...and not working (still?) you need to worry about some other things in addition to your wife cheating. Get some "outside help" with this....in forms of counseling and such. *sigh*