one_on_one
06-29-2006, 03:58 AM
I found this web site in desperate times and it feels good to be able to chat with other people with this kinds of experiences. I will do my best to make it as short as possible.
Husband and wife for about 5 years.
PART 1
One sunday afternoon, my husband was working on his car. (Van)..I went out and then went back in the house to get him a cold drink I had my toddler with me.
He got a phone call on his cell and had to go in the house to get information for that call.
I was very curious to search his car..very curious something was telling me to search.... I tried to keep the toddler intertain and got in the car and started to search...
This is what I found...
In a very small space of this car tucked in I found about 10 individual small papers with girls names and phone numbers. I also found in that same spot 2 condoms, they looked kind of rubbed, like if they had been carry around...
And That Is Not ALL...I also found a book on "How to pick up women" where to meet them, pick up lines..and so on. I Found this big book on the door storage compartment.
But it does Not Stop there...I ALSO FOUND A BOTTLE OF "VIAGRA"! next to the book, also by the door storage compartment.
Last but not least I also found thos newspaper ads on girls to spend time with like for massage and good times.... This ones I found under the passenger seat.
I Felt Like I was just slapped on the face...
I grabbed all the papers with the girls telephone numbers and the 2 condoms and put them in my jean pockets..The rest I left in the car...
I even had enough time to count the number of Viagra pills left on the bottle container. There were 2 pills missing.
As he was coming back he started to talk to a neightbor...I started to walk towards him and I said to him... come inside the house I need to talk to you now... He looked confused and followed me in behiend the toddler...
He walked in the house and closed the door behiend him and said "What,what is it"
I pulled out the numbers and condoms and confronted him...
His face expression change and quickly reply in loud tone "THAT'S NOT MINE!"
and walked away from me very angry and upset..
I told him that he was a coward (sp?) for walking away from me...
I put the chain on the door from preventing the toddler from getting out..something that we have been doing four a couple of years for safety reasons...
He quickly returned still very angry and chain was still on the door..as I walked towards the door to remove the chain..He started to force the chain off breaking..part of the door frame..I keeped telling him to wait..but his anger he could not listen. I asked him in an angry tone why did he had to break the door frame?...
He said because I had locked him out!...
and walked towards me very angry that his eyes were wide wide open..
He wanted me to give him the numbers back...I said
NO!... well he grabbed me from the shoulders and I tried to pushed him away from me...since he was trying to get into my jean pockets...
What I will never forget is the Anger in his eyes as he looked at me right in the face.....
He keep saying that all that was not his at all... I just keep saying "Yhea Right" how Stup__ do you thing I am to belive that...
Then he got out of the house again.
I quickly hide the numbers and condoms in the bedroom, just incase he tried to search me again..
He is pretty strong and I knew he would take them away for sure if he tried again..
I was very Angry, Hurt, Frustrated and disappointed at him...every suspecion I had of him came to light..I had evidence aftet evidence and he keeped denieing...
I asked him to leave the house, He said plain "NO". He said that he had done nothing wrong and that I was being bumd...
He also said that the book a client gave it to him..and has been sitting in the car for a long time..
He also said that he sells the Viagra by the pill.
Can you belive the nerve of this man..
And the Ads he found them and put them there for no reason at all.
Thing got pretty bad...I said so many things to him that I never thought I would ever say to a human... I was very ANGRY.
Later he said that those numbers where from the previous owner of the car..and they were just there... I Knew it was a lie..The very day that he purchased this car I was with him, and I put my hand in this hidden area and was empty..
Some of the names and numbers were written by his very own and writting and from his very own note pad, that he usually carries with him.
My husband is a Handy man and works every where he is self employed...so he goes and comes back as he pleases.. And has a drinking problem too.
The excuse that he made for the 2 condoms were that he had done work for a private clinic several times and the doctor and assitants give them away to there patience ..and he gives them away to other people too. One thing for sure. We don't use condoms when we are together... And that is not often as you already had imagine.
His stories keeped changeing about the numbers,condoms and book..The only story he has stucked to is the Viagra and the I say "call girls ads"..
NOT TO MENTION YET.. I also found PROFILES online on him on adult sex sites..and He yes he denies those to..
Several days have passed by and I have been very angry.. I don't cook, clean not make him luch since that day...nor his dirty loundry.
But here and there we exchange several words..and he plays the inocent guy..and I'm the bad one..Right..
Since we have a toddler and a visiting teenager in the house..it has been very difficult to sit him down and talk...
I told him that I wanted the teenager to leave for the weekend or one day so we could talk about the situation... And what does the man do?.. HE GOES FISHING ON THE FOLLOWING SATURDAY!!!! he had mentioned to me on a friday that he would go fishing on saturday...so I can be alone and not see him, since I very angry at him..
I SAID WHAT!!!! ARE YOU CRAZY!! I HAVE BEEN WAITING THE WHOLE WEEK FOR THE teenager to go away so that we can talk..and now your going fishing?!!... (I had plan to leave the toddler with gradma )
STORY TO CONTINUE IN PART 2. I will post it in the afternoon if all possible..this is the only time I have to post..since I have to wait for everyone to be in bed so I can post again...
Husband and wife for about 5 years.
PART 1
One sunday afternoon, my husband was working on his car. (Van)..I went out and then went back in the house to get him a cold drink I had my toddler with me.
He got a phone call on his cell and had to go in the house to get information for that call.
I was very curious to search his car..very curious something was telling me to search.... I tried to keep the toddler intertain and got in the car and started to search...
This is what I found...
In a very small space of this car tucked in I found about 10 individual small papers with girls names and phone numbers. I also found in that same spot 2 condoms, they looked kind of rubbed, like if they had been carry around...
And That Is Not ALL...I also found a book on "How to pick up women" where to meet them, pick up lines..and so on. I Found this big book on the door storage compartment.
But it does Not Stop there...I ALSO FOUND A BOTTLE OF "VIAGRA"! next to the book, also by the door storage compartment.
Last but not least I also found thos newspaper ads on girls to spend time with like for massage and good times.... This ones I found under the passenger seat.
I Felt Like I was just slapped on the face...
I grabbed all the papers with the girls telephone numbers and the 2 condoms and put them in my jean pockets..The rest I left in the car...
I even had enough time to count the number of Viagra pills left on the bottle container. There were 2 pills missing.
As he was coming back he started to talk to a neightbor...I started to walk towards him and I said to him... come inside the house I need to talk to you now... He looked confused and followed me in behiend the toddler...
He walked in the house and closed the door behiend him and said "What,what is it"
I pulled out the numbers and condoms and confronted him...
His face expression change and quickly reply in loud tone "THAT'S NOT MINE!"
and walked away from me very angry and upset..
I told him that he was a coward (sp?) for walking away from me...
I put the chain on the door from preventing the toddler from getting out..something that we have been doing four a couple of years for safety reasons...
He quickly returned still very angry and chain was still on the door..as I walked towards the door to remove the chain..He started to force the chain off breaking..part of the door frame..I keeped telling him to wait..but his anger he could not listen. I asked him in an angry tone why did he had to break the door frame?...
He said because I had locked him out!...
and walked towards me very angry that his eyes were wide wide open..
He wanted me to give him the numbers back...I said
NO!... well he grabbed me from the shoulders and I tried to pushed him away from me...since he was trying to get into my jean pockets...
What I will never forget is the Anger in his eyes as he looked at me right in the face.....
He keep saying that all that was not his at all... I just keep saying "Yhea Right" how Stup__ do you thing I am to belive that...
Then he got out of the house again.
I quickly hide the numbers and condoms in the bedroom, just incase he tried to search me again..
He is pretty strong and I knew he would take them away for sure if he tried again..
I was very Angry, Hurt, Frustrated and disappointed at him...every suspecion I had of him came to light..I had evidence aftet evidence and he keeped denieing...
I asked him to leave the house, He said plain "NO". He said that he had done nothing wrong and that I was being bumd...
He also said that the book a client gave it to him..and has been sitting in the car for a long time..
He also said that he sells the Viagra by the pill.
Can you belive the nerve of this man..
And the Ads he found them and put them there for no reason at all.
Thing got pretty bad...I said so many things to him that I never thought I would ever say to a human... I was very ANGRY.
Later he said that those numbers where from the previous owner of the car..and they were just there... I Knew it was a lie..The very day that he purchased this car I was with him, and I put my hand in this hidden area and was empty..
Some of the names and numbers were written by his very own and writting and from his very own note pad, that he usually carries with him.
My husband is a Handy man and works every where he is self employed...so he goes and comes back as he pleases.. And has a drinking problem too.
The excuse that he made for the 2 condoms were that he had done work for a private clinic several times and the doctor and assitants give them away to there patience ..and he gives them away to other people too. One thing for sure. We don't use condoms when we are together... And that is not often as you already had imagine.
His stories keeped changeing about the numbers,condoms and book..The only story he has stucked to is the Viagra and the I say "call girls ads"..
NOT TO MENTION YET.. I also found PROFILES online on him on adult sex sites..and He yes he denies those to..
Several days have passed by and I have been very angry.. I don't cook, clean not make him luch since that day...nor his dirty loundry.
But here and there we exchange several words..and he plays the inocent guy..and I'm the bad one..Right..
Since we have a toddler and a visiting teenager in the house..it has been very difficult to sit him down and talk...
I told him that I wanted the teenager to leave for the weekend or one day so we could talk about the situation... And what does the man do?.. HE GOES FISHING ON THE FOLLOWING SATURDAY!!!! he had mentioned to me on a friday that he would go fishing on saturday...so I can be alone and not see him, since I very angry at him..
I SAID WHAT!!!! ARE YOU CRAZY!! I HAVE BEEN WAITING THE WHOLE WEEK FOR THE teenager to go away so that we can talk..and now your going fishing?!!... (I had plan to leave the toddler with gradma )
STORY TO CONTINUE IN PART 2. I will post it in the afternoon if all possible..this is the only time I have to post..since I have to wait for everyone to be in bed so I can post again...