When is enough, ENOUGH?

[lost222]

My husband and I will be married 8 years this August. We have 3 kids together and custody of his daughter from a previous relationship. Our kids are 9, 6, 1, and 4 months. I had suspected something going on for a few weeks. Sunday, I decided to get online to view his call history for his cell. Found a couple numbers that I didn't know, calling in the middle of the night. (One of my hunches, he was leaving in the middle of the night to "go fishing," which he does do from time to time) Well, seeing these calls raised my flag! So, I called them. One was a dating service, the other a NEXTEL number that was disconnected. Well, let me also add that for the past 2 weeks, I have been dealing with a terrible yeast infection, been to the doctor. I immediately knew, something was up!!! He came home, he admitted and I drug his butt to the ER and made them give me a complete STD screen....guess what? I got an STD!!!! FROM HIM!!!!!!!! FROM HER!!! So, they treat me and thank GOD, it is one that can be treated with medication and once gone, doesn't come back unless I am exposed again. I am SO HURT and SO devistated. I don't know what to do. He has been so sympathetic and swears up and down that it will never happen. BUT I AM SCARED!!!!!!!!!! When we were "dating" I caught him with my stepdaughter's mother and blew it off as he was confussed with what road to take. I have caught him online with personal adds before and now this!!!!! I don't want to tear our family apart and I don't know if I can trust him and believe that it won't happen. I guess I am trying to avoid the pain, but I don't know what I really want. I know that I am very disgusted with him and in my own body!!!!!!!!! I need advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[exhausted]

First and foremost get yourself well!!

That's how I found out about my wife was her cell phone history.. It sounds like to me He has been doing this for a good long time.. He has strayed out and came back with a STD... It is up too you if you want to carry on with this guy..

I wouldn't if it was me, but, that's me.. Take care of yourself and your family..

[LUCHINDE]

Its So Hard Out There It Looks Like Al Of Us Are Going Thru This
You Are Not The Only One Lets Unite And Come Against Such I Tell You It Is So Devastating.
The Thing Is When You Leave What About The Kids Its Painfull But Try To Work It Out.

[Naeemah2380]

know how you feel. Sick, tired and restless. You can't sleep, eat or think. I've been there. Time is the only key. It is so sad that your soul mate, best friend can take you off that great high! Now your life is a living hell. No matter how much people might say this or say that, nothing will change. Time will pass and each second, minute and day your heart will tell you something different. Patience is required, but no due to the bastard. Oh I feel your pain! One day at a time and the future will direct the wind.

"If you ever had your heart broken or hurt, and you forgave that person and still was able to love them like before, that's true love!"

[tooots]

I liked your post.

I am in the same situation right now. I am trying to give my husband the benefit of the doubt but I am losing the ability to do so with his actions.

Trying to be strong and weather the storm but it is very difficult.