Help me please

[jforeman1969]

My fiance' and I have been together for 4 years I just found out that she has slept with 3 different people. 1 of them is an old fling, it started with talk he made the move she did not say no, this one has happened 7 times in the past year and half. The next she met on love happens saying she was looking for friends, they met and she did him that day plus 1 other time saying that she thought he could just be friends, he did come over a 3rd time she said she pushed him off and never talked with him again, him saying 4 or 5 times who to believe, this was feb 3rd threw 15th. The 3rd guy her sister set her up with, my girl told her sister just as friends, they met went to lunch1 time, then went to lunch the 2nd where he invited her over to talk with my 2 year old son, she agreed, she said he moved in kissed her and she was afraid to say no, the next time 3 days later she took a little fight nade it big, i said if your going to have this attitude then get out she said fine, went to her sisters for 5 minutes then said she went to this guys house to be consoled, when he moved in a did her again, I here this time she moaned and made him think or is trying to make me think she did not orgasm. Then it happened 2 more time, the 3rd she was on her cycle so she thought she was safe, well he said you could you know, s she did, but was affraid to say no, the 4th time after there little sessions with all 3 of my kids over there, she told him she loved him, she said she said this because she was using him for a place to stay if I found out and kicked her out, also saying they would be together buy his birthday which was November then said they should be together buy her birtday May 4th. We then started I guess getting along better in her mind and went to break it off, told him this he then said we could still be friends she said yes, she says he then moved in and started kissing her again, she did not say no out of fear, she was on her cycle again, she told him this he then said you could suck me, she did after a few he said not working lets go to the room there is other holes, she did, she pooped on him, he showered while she wiped up, he was getting out she asked to use the shower he stayed in and trid to do her bent over, he said this is not working pluged the tub where she sat and did it, she said knees hurting can't do this, so he dried she stayed in cleaned up more got a towel walked into the bed room got her clothes started to put them on he said wait lay on the bed, she did he finished, she said don't wait again I am going to be with me, I can't kick her out I love her with all my heart and can not think about being with out her am I crazy can she change, On her behalf she was raped and beaten when 16 and never got counsiling for it, she says her not saying no is because of this, can it be true, why when I asked her to leave she busted into tears, worse than I have ever seen. In short what do I do I can't see myself without her, and I am so confused as to why I can't get my emotions straight and either want her to stay or ask her to leave.

Please help
Either very in love or very stupid.:( :( :(

[exhausted]

Well for one!! If you have not married her, I wouldn't!! Many things I see wrong here!

1. She has screwed with your head,heart and Soul!!!
2. She has done this on multiple occasions(enough said?)
3. She sounds like too me that she will do this again and again!!
4. Sounds like too me that her family doesn't even sound very good to me.. especially if her sister is setting her up with people..

Do the right thing, Move on and find somebody that will respect you as a person.

Just my 2 cents

[wtcs]

This one needs to hit the road.


Dawn

[trustisgone]

You need to send her packing!!

[gam3s]

Screw her one more time! Then cheat on her! Then leave her!

[tomasingm]

There is a saying my 12 year old God son repeats that he got from his rap cd, "YOU CAN'T MAKE A HOE A HOUSEWIFE." My opinion is this if you marry her after all of this BS dont try to get any sympathy, you already know what she is all about. If you get lonely call up an escort service. You will find that these hookers are little bit like women who cheat the only difference is that a hooker won't lie to you and you'll know she is screwing other people. Besides if you add up all that you are going to spend on dinner, Valentines gifts, anniversary presents, engagement parties, holidays, everything it is probably more cost effective too.