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[vlxlove]

I met a guy 4 months ago and he told me his wife passed away three years ago! I just found out he is married, she is alive! He doesn't know that I know yet. Any advice? Do I tell the wife? Do I get revenge? I am in shock! You should of heard the things he has told me the past 4 months!:mad:

[frostymanadvice]

Let him know and break it off with him. This guy is a scumbag and doesn't deserve your love. If you tell his wife, she might end up forgiving him and you would be the one looking like some psycho. Unless you have proof like letters or cards stating that she was dead, it's just your word against his.

Guys like these piss me the f*** off b/c of his selfishness. He is using you for personal gain and sexual gratification. Dump this fool now! I am giving you a link that will help you understand why scumbags like these do what they do.

http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/

Frosty

[Anna]

I met a guy 4 months ago and he told me his wife passed away three years ago! I just found out he is married, she is alive! He doesn't know that I know yet. Any advice? Do I tell the wife? Do I get revenge? I am in shock! You should of heard the things he has told me the past 4 months!:mad:
Hi,I'm the one on the other end I got a call from a young girl who was also lied to and was told we were divorced and that he had only 1 child we have 1+++ children I was shocked when I got this call. I am very greatful to her for letting me in on this. She was pretty shocked as well, being we weren't even separated we had just had another child so obviously we're doing so bad so I thought, we had lots of intimate outings, dates and fun, so I'm not sure whats going on, I have been very kind to him. So what are they up to they want these 2 worlds and we are stuck with lying jerks you deserve more and I realize she's not the bad guy and she's blessed she's not stuck with him. Not only did he lie about divorce but he added I abused him, by the way this is the trend for these jerks they portray themselves as victems so they look like the good guys its the poor me syndrome, which is farthest from the truth.They lie and they will lie about anything. I can almost guarantee you he will use he's the victem mode. Saying he was abused or she's mental. If I were you I would have him in some way get the lies on paper, maybe email you about his dead wife and get as many lies on paper and then let the wife know. My guess she probably has an ingling and is searching for what he is up to. He's done it to you and no telling how many others he's done it to. Sounds like it could even be someone I know.By the way whether you get it on paper or not let
her know!

[betty]

totally understand your situation i just had the same experience and it was awful! the WIFE was the one to contact me!....so u can imagine.... i was in shock i sent her everything i had.... and i just found out the poor wife is pregnant! so sorry for her, she's gonna have to deal with him and know what he did.

so my advice is OF COURSE BREAK IT OFF!! u dont need any of those problems in your life and if u feel like telling his wife do so, but only if u have proof, and when you do that, move on and get them out of your life forever.

sincerely

B