I feel so sick and alone!

[siciliann]

I have been involved with someone for almost 2 years. He was physically abusive and we broke up briefly. I fell for the baby, baby pleases and I love yous and won't do it agains and we got back together. Recently we were married just 2 months ago and things got worse. He became very violent and forced me to leave. We have been seperated for 3 weeks now and during he has been doing everything in his power to let me believe that he has changed and professing his undying love for me to get me back and come back home and save our marriage. I started to fall for it again and recently saw him and was almost convinced of his love for me when I read a text message on his phone he sent to someone saying he would call later and I love you. I called this person to find out that he has been seeing a 17 yr. old girl for the last few months that he met from one of his friends daughters. I checked a voice mail message that she sent earlier to him that day and she stated how much she loved him too. I called her and found out he never told her he was married and said he wasn't talking to anyone and that she was suppossed to be his girlfriend. I was livid! She denies having sex with him (I think she is covering for him). He swears he thought she was 18, and that he only talked to her cuz I didn't want him and that he never meant to tell the young girl he loved her, that he loved me soooo much and it means nothing and he only wants to come back home and be right with me! The nerve! I am completly fed up and so hurt that I really believed he did love me and that he was trying so hard to show me he had changed and wanted this marriage to work. The whole time he was doing his dirt he was begging, crying, and even using getting back in church to show me how he only wanted to love his wife and make it work. I feel so betrayed and angry and so sick to my stomach! can someone out there help me so I don't feel so alone and manipulated, I am so confussed! By the way, I am 34 and he is 27.

[frostymanadvice]

What the hell are you confused about? He is a piece of garbage with no morals whatsoever. Did you warn the seventeen year old that he's violent? It is your duty to at least inform her so that she has no excuses in the end when he becomes violent with her to..

Your husband is a typical case of a violent controlling man wanting his way while destroying other peoples lives. He will NEVER find happiness and prey's on weak women like yourself. I have said time and time again a person only changes their ways if they want to. Going to counseling for three weeks does not mean they have turned over a new leaf. It takes TIME, PATIENCE and EFFORT to completely change your personality. Unfortunately because women are emotionally tied down they end up giving into their spouses whinign and pleading only to get hurt again.

This man SHOULD be behind bars without parole. He is a mental and an emotional abuser as well as physical.

I suggest you seek an attorney as soon as possible for your divorce and forget about this clown. I am giving you a link so you can understand why guys like these are nothing but scum.

http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/

Frosty

[lovenhall]

You're young!! Let him go find someone that will treat you kind and truly show you he loves you. It's not a dream there are men out there that are kind! I see them everyday and they love their wifes!! There is someone for you!!!!!! You might have a really hard time at the begining but it will be worth it in the end!!!! LOVE yourself don't go back!!!

I have a sister that was in a abusive marrige and after he held the gun to her head she forgave him. Now years late she had the stranth to leave and she mentaly can not handle any kind of stress. She started drugs before she got out of the house and she is now off them she found a man that loves her for what she is and he would do anything for her. I thank him for that he has give her a reason to go on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!