jnewportdel
02-18-2009, 08:06 AM
Though I was happily married when my second child was born. Just bought new home, was estatic that I qualified for the mortgage! I progressing at work, went from 45k per year to 75k in the three years we were married. Doing everything right, right?
Well here I go!
Leaving for a Phillies game with my son and her father one Sunday am back in 04 and her cell phone starts ringing and it was from an older wealthy guy that she had befriended through her cousin. I inquired why he would be calling on a Sunday am and why she had his name programmed, no big deal was reply. Needless to say I spent an anxious day at the ball park. went through period of him asking her to go on trips until I enlisted the help of her parents to put a stop to it. Went to counseling all all good, I FIXED IT!!!
Move a year to the next summer. I was recruited by another company and am was making 145k per year at the time and we are thinking about buying a BIG house. Well, sitting on the beach with her mother and the cell starts and she is not answering, of course I press why. She then hands the phone to kme and it is thw wealthy guy again. I tell him to leave us alone and she says she does not want to be bothered as well. Anxiety laced vacation to say the least.
We buy the big house and I am working at new job. She takes job with home builder. An affair starts with an assistant project manager, late meetings and phone calls because the "project" demanded the same. Now I knew it was nonsence because I am in the business and could have handled six projects that size "standing on my head" within business hours. Eventually I locate enough evidence that she admits the affair. I could go on about particulars and how clever I was in uncovering the same but as I think back it was that she really did not care if I found out. She moves out fully and leaves me with three kids! I plead for her to come home and she does in 2 weeks and off to an intense weekend shop stories and cry weekend counseling session. (In hindsight I should have had the strength to leave her alone then, I would have been much better off).
We put it back together and I ger a globe with a note saying she is giving me her world, give me her world she did and another dose I got!!
This past summer on two family vacations she is out to all hours of the night with the nanny and I uncover affair #3. I am told at 7:30 the friday night before check out that we are through and it is too late. She was having an affair with a married guy out of DC. Somebody more her age. I am 49 and she 38.
Well, we get divorced. (and I got to be quick here because my anxiety level is rising rather than falling! I thought sharing an overview would help).
She gets paid as i refied the house, and get paid well she did.
She gets her boobs done, is now in affiar with her married bosss 54 years old and is leaving for Vegas with him in two weeks, acting happy as can be as if I was so terrible. Her new boss works within the same confines i do so it is very embarrassing.
Well, that is all you get for 25 cents!
Well here I go!
Leaving for a Phillies game with my son and her father one Sunday am back in 04 and her cell phone starts ringing and it was from an older wealthy guy that she had befriended through her cousin. I inquired why he would be calling on a Sunday am and why she had his name programmed, no big deal was reply. Needless to say I spent an anxious day at the ball park. went through period of him asking her to go on trips until I enlisted the help of her parents to put a stop to it. Went to counseling all all good, I FIXED IT!!!
Move a year to the next summer. I was recruited by another company and am was making 145k per year at the time and we are thinking about buying a BIG house. Well, sitting on the beach with her mother and the cell starts and she is not answering, of course I press why. She then hands the phone to kme and it is thw wealthy guy again. I tell him to leave us alone and she says she does not want to be bothered as well. Anxiety laced vacation to say the least.
We buy the big house and I am working at new job. She takes job with home builder. An affair starts with an assistant project manager, late meetings and phone calls because the "project" demanded the same. Now I knew it was nonsence because I am in the business and could have handled six projects that size "standing on my head" within business hours. Eventually I locate enough evidence that she admits the affair. I could go on about particulars and how clever I was in uncovering the same but as I think back it was that she really did not care if I found out. She moves out fully and leaves me with three kids! I plead for her to come home and she does in 2 weeks and off to an intense weekend shop stories and cry weekend counseling session. (In hindsight I should have had the strength to leave her alone then, I would have been much better off).
We put it back together and I ger a globe with a note saying she is giving me her world, give me her world she did and another dose I got!!
This past summer on two family vacations she is out to all hours of the night with the nanny and I uncover affair #3. I am told at 7:30 the friday night before check out that we are through and it is too late. She was having an affair with a married guy out of DC. Somebody more her age. I am 49 and she 38.
Well, we get divorced. (and I got to be quick here because my anxiety level is rising rather than falling! I thought sharing an overview would help).
She gets paid as i refied the house, and get paid well she did.
She gets her boobs done, is now in affiar with her married bosss 54 years old and is leaving for Vegas with him in two weeks, acting happy as can be as if I was so terrible. Her new boss works within the same confines i do so it is very embarrassing.
Well, that is all you get for 25 cents!