7 days

[Skirtchaser]

Well guys and gals, it's been 7 days since I got the lipstick letter. My head is clear and my heart is still in tact. Kayden is adjusting better now and is starting to get into the groove of his sitters. He hasn't started terrorizing them yet so I know he's not back to normal. I'm trying to finish what now is my dream home, start the truck farm planting, and working my regular job. It's all pretty tiring but I'm making it.

I intend to divorce, I resisted talking with her yesterday. 28 voice mails, all the usual lies all you have heard before. I don't know when I will start dating again, I will at some point when life settles down. I've told ya'll before I won't give up on love or finding a good woman. The right one is still out there.

[tijaco]

You're strong Chaser. I know you will do fine. It will maybe be better to just concentrate on life right now and wait until your feelings for your wife are gone before you start dating. You probably are disgusted with her right now but you still had a lot of good years that may take some time to mourn.

I'm sticking my nose in again and saying for the little one's sake, dating is Ok but don't bring anyone around Kayden until you know for sure she is the one.


He will need that stability to get over his trauma.

You can tell me shut up now.:)

[bchgrl2008]

You don't need to date right now, but of course, you know all this. I am still amazed that you could give so much sacrifice and not ask for a thing in return. You are one of a kind, and a great catch for any woman who manages to steal your heart.

[doesmybuttlookfatinthis]

Skirtchaser can you regale us with some of the 28 voice mails. I think it would be educational for some of the newer posters here who need to hear some of the Bull**** excuses they can expect. I would be real interested how she justifies dumping her own flesh and blood off at someones door. That is if you don't mind. Or if it is not too painful.

[Skirtchaser]

They went something like,

Please call me, I know you hate me, I need to talk to you, I want to come home, I'm going into rehab for the alcohol and pills, I'll change, Is it really over?
etc.......

[doesmybuttlookfatinthis]

Funny, when I looked up "real men" in the dictionary and it referenced skirtchaser underneath. I did not see the picture of a door mat.

[breemood]

Did any of the voice mails say, " I am an azz of large proportions and I need to some one to shove their foot up it?" I volunteer for the job. I wear a 7 1/2 and I can turn counter clockwise and pull.:eek::cool:;)

[law]

Hey Skirt,

I am rooting for you too! You will survive!