Question about U.C.M.J.

[opspec]

Hello I am an inactive ready reserve operations specialist in the coast guard.

I recently found my wife txting an exboyfriend back in my home of records where I now live. They have had (phone txt sex) <--- I'm really not too sure if that is what you call it. She has been over to his house three times in the past two and a half months, she claims they have kissed only once to see if they still had the old flame going, she claims for her the flame is no longer there

HERE IS THE KICKER PEOPLE. SHE DIDN'T TELL ME ABOUT all of this stuff I found out about it from my 4 year old son who was there, my daughter is two and she was there with my wife and son. I asked my wife about all of this and she said it all was true, and that she is sorry for it the same old same old i'll never do it again i'm sorry i wrecked our marriage thing. My son also said this loser put his hand on mommies bottom when her was kissing her. My wife and the loser confirmed all of this. I called the loser on the tele

Today is the seventh of December ALSO my Birthday and guess what, that was my present.

So this is my question about U.C.M.J. uniform code of military justice. I know that adultry in the ucmj is illegel but they claim they never had sex just kissing.

But however he did kiss her and grope her bottom infront of my children.......MY KIDS......Men and Women.

this loser is a weekend warrior, has a child out of wedlock, still lives with his parents and he works at mcky d's Hes 25 by the way.

So how can I prosocute him if any at all under the U.C.M.J.?
I have electronic data records.... cell phone lists of calls and txts rcvd and sent.
I have digital voice recorded of me, my wife and my sons conversation......
I also have a 4 year olds eyewitness account.

P.s. What should I do about my cheating wife also..?

[Ravage]

First thing to do is find his commanding officer and take all your informaton, tell his entire outfit. Get a lawyer and show them you mean business, if this guy is not gonna be kicked outta the service they will have bigger problems to deal with. I dont care how high ranked he is.

Secondly what the F is your wife's problems putting your kids in the middle of it? WTF? Brining another man in your house!

I would so divorce her! Get a lawyer and know your rights.

Ask her upfront it's on her to fix this situation she created and if she doesnt propose MC or goes to one you want, just tell her get a lawyer and prepare to not be together.

This will not end nicely. She cannot sweep things under the rug and pretend it didnt happen! is that what you teach to your kids? How can she look herself in the mirror?

[Skirtchaser]

He wasn't sticking the cell phone in her at his house. They always tell that lie about just kissing. Old flame my ass.

[Flynn]

I am retired military and am not sure how it works for reserves. But I have worked with reservists alot due to the war. I think if he was not on orders he is treated like any other civilian. Active duty its 24/7. If you could prove he was with your wife on days he was doing his weekend warrior time then you might have a chance. But its slim. You should check with your Chaplain or family services. Also you Senior Enlisted Advisor....I think in the Coast Guard/Navy it would be a Senior Chief. Good Luck!!

[janine'stoy]

You cannot unless she is also military and he is her superior or she his. That reg is a joke uless it is between an O and an E since he is only in the reserves and the affair is with a civilian you have no chance-sorry. However, there is always friendly fire.

[MuffinMan]

So how can I prosocute him if any at all under the U.C.M.J.?
I have electronic data records.... cell phone lists of calls and txts rcvd and sent.
I have digital voice recorded of me, my wife and my sons conversation......
I also have a 4 year olds eyewitness account.

P.s. What should I do about my cheating wife also..?

I wouldn't worry about him, I'd just give the boot to your worthless wife.

Get a divorce. Or, and because I understand the devestation of having to think about doing what you think may be right for the kids, if you stay with her, then she needs to bend to your will. If she wants to go somewhere with girlfriends and you say no, then she stays her worthless ass home....period. No going out to socialize in situations that are more condusive to cheating, like clubs, all that sh!t is over.

She either acts like a wife, or she doesn't deserve to be one. She needs to know that if she wants this marriage to work, then she is on house arrest for a mighty long time. If she is not ok with that...then f#ck her. Then she wasn't that interested in saving the marriage in the first place.

get rid of her, or drop the hammer.

[doesmybuttlookfatinthis]

Penetration however slight is sufficient to commit the crime. He must have had either oral, anal, or vaginal insertion.

As far as your wife goes. Close your joint accounts (credit and bank). And tell her to open her own. Then put her on a budget. Tell her any woman who I can't trust with their vagina, I can't trust with my money.