my mom just passed away

[trevormac]

Deborah Revel was only 56 and died suddenly on Thursday Nov 6th. She was my rock during my breakup with my wife. The one woman I trusted completely who would have given anything to help me in any way; a completely honest woman who taught me to do likewise in my dealings with others. I'll miss you mom, and I look forward to going to you one day and being reunited.

[Skirtchaser]

My condolences, Trevor.

[breemood]

I am so sorry for your loss. I have lost a parent too. Still I can't imagine your pain. Each relationshipis so unique and special, so each one's pain is different too. I pray for your strength and peace. God bless you and your family. :(

[Big Mo]

...and positive karma should go to all of our parents. They raised people with consciences, right? So, they did all right. I can only hope my kids grow up to care for their loved ones.

-BM

[breemood]

(((((Trevor))))))

[trevormac]

thanks guys, this site has helped me through the pain of my being cheated on. Interestingly, I'm finalizing the divorce this week. My mom knew her health was bad and was glad that I got out of that marriage and that my ***** ex wife wouldn't get any of my inheritance. Thank God my wife was so stupid she did the only thing that would make me leave that awful marriage. I should thank her one day; if she hadn't cheated on me, I'd probably still be in my dead end job instead of excelling in the IT program I'm in now and she'd be planning on how to spend my mom's money no doubt.

Sometimes extremely painful events end up being blessings in disguise. Thank you God for giving me a kick in the rear, it sucked at the time, but now I can see that it was necessary. I'm just thankful to my mom for being there for me and listening this last year to all my sorrows, and letting me move back in with her while I was going to school; her final act of love was to leave me with her condo and enough life insurance to get through school; she didn't have to pay for life insurance all those years and I told her she didn't need to, but that's the kind of woman she was, she wanted the best for me which is more than I can say for my ex. I can't wait to see her again in heaven one day; truly she is the only reason I still believe that there are good woman out there.

[breemood]

Trevor, God is good and you will be with her again. She just needed to rest up so you can party with her later. I miss my dad today too. My sister and I had a good cry this morning, now we are fighting over the setting the table. I say it will be my way, I am after all 13 years older than she is and it is my house.;)

[Skirtchaser]

thanks guys, this site has helped me through the pain of my being cheated on. Interestingly, I'm finalizing the divorce this week. My mom knew her health was bad and was glad that I got out of that marriage and that my ***** ex wife wouldn't get any of my inheritance. Thank God my wife was so stupid she did the only thing that would make me leave that awful marriage. I should thank her one day; if she hadn't cheated on me, I'd probably still be in my dead end job instead of excelling in the IT program I'm in now and she'd be planning on how to spend my mom's money no doubt.

Sometimes extremely painful events end up being blessings in disguise. Thank you God for giving me a kick in the rear, it sucked at the time, but now I can see that it was necessary. I'm just thankful to my mom for being there for me and listening this last year to all my sorrows, and letting me move back in with her while I was going to school; her final act of love was to leave me with her condo and enough life insurance to get through school; she didn't have to pay for life insurance all those years and I told her she didn't need to, but that's the kind of woman she was, she wanted the best for me which is more than I can say for my ex. I can't wait to see her again in heaven one day; truly she is the only reason I still believe that there are good woman out there.

Amazing, she lost miles over maybe six inches or less.Ironic isn't it?

[trevormac]

Amazing, she lost miles over maybe six inches or less.Ironic isn't it?

LOL, good one.

[Ravage]

That sucks, alot of people are dying this year, but i hope you feel better soon too trevor, alot of my extended family members are passing away this year. Damn dont know why?

[trevormac]

That sucks, alot of people are dying this year, but i hope you feel better soon too trevor, alot of my extended family members are passing away this year. Damn dont know why?

I don't know. I'm extremely busy with school and settling the estate, plus cleaning up her place. It's helping me keep my mind off it. I suspect when I get a lot of this stuff done it'll hit me hard. I was a wreck the first 4 or 5 days. Maybe all these people dying is a mercy. What I see coming with the financial meltdown and the possible rise of tyranny and the new world order, maybe she's better off where she is rather than having to deal with stuff down here. I expect to get into a soup line when I finish school.