So broken

[ShellyKay]

The love of my life recently told me of an affair and he cannot get over her. He is in the process of moving out and I am devastated. I love him so much and we have two kids together. It is tearing me up inside. I have no one to turn to either and it hurts so much. The thought of him with her is unbearable.

[sweetpea421]

I have somewhat the same situation....except we don't have kids. We dated for about 7 years before we got married and now married only 16 months... him cheating on me for the last 4 months... I just found out after he threw me a beautiful birthday and couldn't believe it. All this time I've been so trusting to him and FAITHFUL!! And all that time he was lying in my FACE! He just kept saying that at least one of us should be happy....

You know if the bastard can leave you just like that than you deserve better...I tell myself that everyday...Right now i'm at another house and we aren't speaking, but I feel like we will be on the road to divorce. Now he's making me feel like the bad person because he found out I slept with a guy and it was when we were broken up....so it was not his business...I told him about other guys that I slept with except this one and now he's making it out like its all my fault....

You are a good person and don't forget that! Guys like your husband and mine don't know what they have! He will realize that one day and beg for your forgivness!! Be strong and don't let him hurt you anymore. I'm not sure if you're religious, but since I found out I haven't been able to sleep so at night I say a prayer over and over:
Dear God please put your hands over my head and bless me with rest so that I can wake up strong for the next day. Wipe away my pain for tonight and bless me to be happy one day.

- sweetpea