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I think that his wife should have known that he was cheating....

I recently started working for a road construction company about 5 mo. ago. well to make a long story short I've been sleeping with my supervisor who is married and recently had a child in august. well we were really into each other alot we called each other every day and he would always come and see me no matter what. have you ever heard that song they stand just a little to close and talk just a little to loud well that was us and the company we worked for they really knew something was going on when they recieved his company phone bill that was 2500. dollars just from calling me. so they demoted him to a heavy equipment operator and soon after somebody told his wife about us and he thinks it was me and wont talk to me now. I think that his wife should have known that he was cheating on her anyway and for him to cheat on his wife for 4 months than obviously he didnt love her that much anyways. I relly loved this guy and dont know what to do.

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I have not cheated - YET....

I have not cheated - YET. But, I've been giving it more and more thought lately - to my shame. It has NOTHING to do with how much I love my wife. I love her very much and go above and beyond the call in showing her every day. And I do believe that she loves me, too.

I guess I should start from the start: We've been together for about 7 years and the first 3 were great! I can honestly say that I never had even the mildest thoughts of cheating on her. I was incredibly happy with our lives together - including our sexual relationship. The past 3 1/2 years are another story.

She has lost all apetite for sex. She swears that it's not just me but that she simply has no sex drive now. Of course, since I'm the only one she's supposed to be having sex with, the result is the same either way. But what really upsets me about this is that it seems as though she has no desire to correct this problem - and has even implied that I'm just expecting too much. Just for reference, we have sex about once every three months and have gone as long as 4 1/2 months between sessions. And, even when we do have sex, it's not intimacy or love; it's "Fine! Let's get this overwith so I can get some sleep!" or she'll just lay there while I 'do' her. I usually feel worse afterwards than I did before. TIP - Ladies, if you don't have a sex drive, don't just put out for your man until you get that corrected. Trust me, if you're not enjoying it - neither is he! And, if he is enjoying it, then it's not love he feels for you!

So that brings us back to today - and my thoughts of cheating. I see other women that have that spark in their eye and you just know that they enjoy sex to it's fullest. And I'm just dying from envy! What I would not give to have a woman look at me again with that desire. And, if you're thinking that I'm some slob that has just let himself go to pot since we got married, I can honestly say that other than my hair thining a bit I look just as I did the day we met. I'm 6' 1" tall, 180# and athletic. And, when I said that our sex life was wonderful before, that includes her being very adventurous! She once pleased me orally in the bedroom while a repairman was working on the furnace downstairs - without the slightest provocation from me, no less! How I miss those days!

So, I guess the moral of this story is that you can't tell your spouse, "You're not getting any from me!" and then truly expect them NOT to go find it somewhere else! Humans are sexual creatures! Even those who deny themselves that pleasure (such as priests, nuns, etc.) still have the desire - they just refrain from acting on those desires. That's why it's called a 'sacrifice'.

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whats wrong with everyone today....

hey there.. i have cheated on mostly all the girls i have been with.. but afterwords i feel guilty as hell and i think to myself that i should enjoy being a player like this.. but the truth is i don't.. but i wish i could.. whats wrong with everyone today, we shouldnt cheat!

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I guess I got what I deserved because I was a "cheater"....

I'm really glad to have "chanced" upon this site. It was a comfort go read the messages here and it made me feel better to hear the different stories and realize I was not alone (I knew I wasn't but it's hard to find those of us whose lives have been crushed from our men). I guess I got what I deserved because I was a "cheater". I was in a marriage for two years and was not in love with my husband so I did go on the computer for attention. I would see these women that would hook up with these guys online and thought they were so stupid, "I would never do that!". Well, I did. He was from a different state and I felt that we were "close" because we talked so often. I felt I really knew him. We moved in together without even meeting in person. He was younger but I was in love. Six months after being together he told me he went to work one day, that night his boss called wanting to know if he would be in the next day since he was off this day sick. Imagine my surprise. He told me that he had actually went out with some guy friends and was afraid to tell me, afraid I'd get mad (I never complained about what he did or did not do). To make a long story short, turns out he went to meet his "online love" from before me. I found this out because I figured out his email password and read her letters. I started packing it up to leave but he talked me into staying. Saying she was a "good friend". I got her home phone number from him and made him call her husband to tell them they had met, which he did and then I spoke to the husband. Of course, I thought it was over. Well, let me tell you...it didn't end there. We have been together for several years now and only 4 months ago I found phone numbers in his wallet. One was a stripper, one from the other lady in his life. The letters I have found on his computer are crushing. He always told me that he can't be responsible for what others write, only what he does. Well, I was able to crack his other email address (cheaters love to have multiple addresses) and finally saw what he had wrote and it crushed me. Things like "I'll love you forever" not to mention the horrible things he said about me. I found a full frontal naked picture on his computer of himself. His excuse...I was making a Valentine card for you hon. I never believed him but couldn't prove it so I let it go. He told me that he would NEVER send naked pictures to anyone. That was wrong too of course. We use to play games with others in tournaments and I found out that all the women had that picture. One night he said he got drunk and spent the night at his friends, when I received the cell bill I found that was a lie, he called me that morning (after I threatened to report my car stolen to the police) from a hotel in Vegas. This last incident with the girls phone numbers and seeing what he wrote in email was the final straw. I not only threw the lying cheat out of my home, I threw his sorry ass in jail as well.

I felt as if a huge burden had been lifted because I have been dealing with internet affairs with him for three years. I started feeling good about myself again because cheaters do make us feel horrible about ourselves. We are always asking them "what's so bad about me? what does she have that I don't?" We start feeling ugly and worthless. We turn from these nice happy go lucky people into depressed, horrible people...I wanted to mess up the women who were involved with him so bad. I would never do what they did. Destroy homes like that. Then again, is it there fault? No, it was his. So, after several months of starting to feel good about myself again, what do I do? I went back with him. He talked me into going to a counselor with him. I should have just said no but I didn't. In our discussions this is what I found out...his 2nd wife had left him for another man and it crushed him. Made him feel undesirable. At least that's his excuse. He did admit in counseling that he is an internet addict. That he craves attention and can't help himself. He says he's different now and when he gets bored, he'll do something else like work on the cars.

Yes we are together. We have two computeres and neither are hooked up. Are things better? Is he cheating? Am I glad I hung in there? I don't feel he is cheating and he may never again. However, I don't feel it will last. He could be a saint right now but he ruined my trust. I can and never will trust him again. I think it's sickening that we can't have a computer hooked up in our house any longer because he can't control himself. I think it's sad that I have become the type of woman that has to check his wallet and pants to see what he is up to. If your man is like this, run, run as fast and as far as you can. Don't let him back because you can never recover that which is lost. For those of you that do cheat, I truly believe what comes around goes around and hope and wish that every single one of you feels the hurt that we have had to go through. Women/men always look good on the internet because you don't have the daily challenges real life relationships do. If you are thinking of cheating, is it worth it? Is it worth losing the love of significant other? I don't believe that crap that I read on here about us women deserve it because we aren't doing our men right. It's what it's always come down to...most men think with their penis.

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He thinks kinky sex is doing it with the lights on...

I hate to say it.. but i cheat on my husband. He thinks kinky sex is doing it with the lights on.. if only he knew.

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Never mind your husband thinking kinky sex is doing it with the lights on....

Never mind your husband thinking kinky sex is doing it with the lights on, we think kinky sex is cybering with women and pretending we are guys, it's hilarious cos we send pic's through of various guys an all!! it's a hoot, you would not believe the things that are said, but to us the laugh is on them :-)

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i recently began having an affair with my cousins husband...

Im a 25 yr old mother of 2 who has been married for 8 yrs..i recently began having an affair with my cousins husband...i know in my head i wouldnt appreciate someone doing me this way but at the same time i feel like if u ladies cant take care of ur man ...someone else will.

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I always cheat on my men and i try so hard not to....

Hello people...i am a cheat. Its not because i dont love my man its because i love the excitement and adrelinen rush. I always cheat on my men and i try so hard not to. I am engaged now and cheated on my fiance with my ex-husband. It happens. I never want my fiance to leave me. If my fiance ever cheats on me he will be out the door...cause i know once a cheat always a cheat!

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When I snuck out the front door, there was a huge camera on a tripod in the street...

I started to blame my husband for my unhappiness. I was on an emotional roller coaster, and he was an easy target. I told him that I wanted a divorce, and threw him out. I started to go out to clubs to dance and would do the stupidest things when I drank. One night, I drove to a friend from work's home drunk. I ended up sleeping with him, but don't remember the details. I did wake up really disoriented. When I snuck out the front door, there was a huge camera on a tripod in the street. My husband had watched everything from outside and called his friend to bring a camera. He was following me around. He told me that he was even more attracted to me, and wanted to get back together. We did for a while, but a few months later I didn't come home one night. I had been at a party, and was up all night. He flipped out, and wanted a divorce. I was freaking out, and ended up overdosing on pills twice in one month. I spent a month in a psychiatric hospital. I found out that I am bipolar, and antidepressants alone were making me worse. We are back together now, but it is hard to get over such hurtful events.

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Why are you women so surprised when you find out your man is having an affair...

Why are you women so surprised when you find out your man is having an affair, have you ever thought of the reason for his doing so.Usually its because youv'e become boring , the sex you used to have is just a dream , i dare say he has tried to"fire" it up on ocassions only to be told , "I have a headache" " Don.t be silly , I'm not doing that". Don't forget , for every man cheating there has to be a woman, well in most cases anyway. Why dont you women try a little harder. I will tell you one thing for sure, should YOU ever cheat on your man I bet you any money you like you would do things with your lover that you wouldn't dream of doing with your man, and that ladies is why we men cheat. This message is also aimed at the men who are being cheated on , get it together or you will lose her, but as the old saying goes. " Familiarity breeds contempt" Just think on that then go out and enjoy the forbidden fruits of sex.

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I WANT THIS GUY TO GET WHAT'S COMING TO HIM...

SOMEONE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME. I JUST FOUND OUT THE GUY I'VE BEEN SEEING, ACTUALLY EXCLUSIVE WITH FOR ALMOST THREE MONTHS IS STILL MARRIED! THIS IS NOT THE FIRST TIME HE HAS DONE THIS APPARENTLY, THEY ALMOST GOT DIVORCED NOT A YEAR AGO BECAUSE HE GOT CAUGHT WITH SOME GIRL NOT HALF HIS AGE! I FEEL HORRIBLE BUT ID DIDN'T KNOW. I WANT TO TELL THIS POOR WOMAN, SHE HAS TWO KIDS WITH THIS GUY. SHE WAS GOOD ENOUGH TO FORIVE HIM ONCE, I HOPE SHE GETS SMART THIS TIME AND LEAVES THIS PATHETIC LOSER. I KNOW I WOULD WANT TO KNOW, BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL HER SO IT DOESN'T COME BACK TO ME. DOES ANYONE KNOW A WAY I COULD DO THIS ANONYMOUSLY? PLEASE HELP- I WANT THIS GUY TO GET WHAT'S COMING TO HIM- WHAT A SCUMMER!

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